July 21, 2026

Should Your Friends Stay Friends With Your Ex? | Ghosting, Breakups & Reddit Horror Stories

Should Your Friends Stay Friends With Your Ex? | Ghosting, Breakups & Reddit Horror Stories

Breakups are hard enough...but what happens when your ex suddenly lives just down the street? On this episode of The Treehouse Show, Trey discovers that the woman who ghosted him now lives nearby, leading to an awkward question: Should your friends...

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Breakups are hard enough...but what happens when your ex suddenly lives just down the street?

On this episode of The Treehouse Show, Trey discovers that the woman who ghosted him now lives nearby, leading to an awkward question: Should your friends stay friends with your ex on social media? Dan finds himself caught in the middle, and the guys debate where loyalty ends and Facebook begins.

We also celebrate Jon Lovitz's birthday, which turns into a nostalgic conversation about the underrated sitcom NewsRadio, before remembering the legendary Robin Williams on what would have been his 75th birthday and discussing why he's still one of the greatest comedians of all time.

Then we dive into one of the strangest relationship stories Reddit has ever delivered after a boyfriend discovers some unexpected "cheese" during an intimate moment. It's weird, it's hilarious, and unfortunately it's real.

If you enjoy funny news, relationship debates, awkward dating stories, Reddit drama, pop culture, celebrity discussions, and comedy podcasts, you've found your people. In this episode:

  • Should friends stay friends with your ex?
  • Ghosting and awkward post-breakup encounters
  • Social media etiquette after a breakup
  • Jon Lovitz and the greatness of NewsRadio
  • Remembering Robin Williams
  • The unbelievable Reddit "cheese" relationship story
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Trey Trenholm. Coming up on today's show, mm hmm. When

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the boyfriend finds cheese, we answer a new age question

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of so who is actually doing all the drinking? And

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you very much. So let's start today with a possible

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life change inside the Treehouse. Trey, you kind of had

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a weekend of discovering things. Tell me more.

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Are we talking about the brandy thing or so I've been.

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I've been doing exercising twice a day while I am

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I'm trying to get a business started and clear my head,

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occupy my time, and honestly I started walking after Brandy

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left me because I sometimes my thoughts got so dark.

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I just needed to get outside and and you know,

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some sunshine and some fresh airs.

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Helps and a and a rocket revenge bod never heard

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anybody either.

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So so I was walking, uh the other day and

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uh lo and behold uh first and like she she

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passed me where you know on I was going east,

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she was going west and uh I obviously I saw her.

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I don't know if she saw me.

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And then she was she on flot or in a car.

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She was in a car.

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Okay.

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Then the following morning, it's about eight thirty ish, I'm

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walking and there are multiple apartment complexes around my apartment complex,

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and I said, the Cedar Springs area, And I'm walking

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past the entrance of you know, of one complex and

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she's pulling out and so like, oh, okay, so we

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live close to one another.

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Great. So this weekend you discovered that your ex girlfriend

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who ghosted you lives in the complex around the corner.

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Yeah, pretty much. Yeah, And then I and uh so,

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I was walking yesterday afternoon Sunday, and there her complex

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has a little dog park and and one of the

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things that not only did the breakup rip me apart,

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because I really thought she was my soulmate and we

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had so much in common, and we never thought we

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had just a wonderful, wonderful relationship. But one of the

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other things was she had a dog, and the dog

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was with me a lot, and I got very attached

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to the dog, especially after Daisy died. And uh so

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she's out in her dog park, and uh, you know,

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I the way I walk, I can't help but walk

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in front of her. Oh I I could go, and

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I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna uproot my life and

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what I'm doing just because you.

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Know, she lives close by.

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I don't care good. But I saw her and obviously

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she saw me walking down the opposite side of the street.

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But then I go down the intersection cross and come

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back up her side of the street, and I looked

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over and she's at the farthest point of of of

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the dog park holding her dog. Like I like, I

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am some kind of maniacal you know, terror that's going

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to you know that, I like like, I've like I'm

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the villain and I've done something wrong and untowards her

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and she has to be afraid of me. So it's

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just it's it's just it's just bizarre. And uh I,

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I guess when you're when you're avoidant and and you

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do stuff like that, I guess you have to make

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a reason why the other person's a villain. And and

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I don't know, it's it's still it's heartbreaking, but you know,

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it is what it is.

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On the plus side, if I may mm hmm, your

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girlfriend ghosted you and you found her kind of makes

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you a ghostbuster. I'm going to drive you to start

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drinking again, aren't I No, dude, that sucks so hard.

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one of the things it's it's one of the things

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that I absolutely fell in love with with her was

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is she had the absolutely it sounds like a cliche,

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but a but a spark a light about her. And

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the times I've seen her, you know obviously no it's

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just from far away or in a car, but she

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looks dead inside. So that's sad. I'm wow, But she's

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made not only she goes to be then you know,

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she just up and I mean she had a fantastic

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job and uh up and just quit because she got

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mad at them. One day, and I was like, Oh,

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all sorts of good decisions, haven't we Wow?

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Okay, okay, I have a couple of questions. First of all,

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now the apartment you just moved into is not far

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from where you lived before, same neighborhood, basically right.

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Close enough, close enough. I mean it's it's less than

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a mile away about that.

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Get that. That's close, especially in Dallas Fort Worth terms,

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that's like next door neighbors. So where did she live

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prior to hooking up with you?

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She lived very close to where we live now, in

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the same So basically we're on the other side of

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the toll road, like Cedar Springs goes over the toll road.

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And I was on one side. She's always been on

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this side I was on. Now I'm on that same side,

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got it?

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Okay? So it in the same general area. The reason

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why I asked is because I wasn't sure if it

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was like if like if she had lived outside of

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that bubble and moved into it to be closer to

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whatever the situation was. Because for the most part, I

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think you guys were at your apartment for the most part,

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and then there was discussions of moving in, and then

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obviously that didn't happen, So I was just wondering what

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the like the geography was if it was actually she

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had uprooted it all.

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No, that was actually one of the magical things with

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her and dating in this day and age, is sometimes

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you know, if someone lives in South Lake, it makes

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it a lot harder that I mean, thirty miles may

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not sound like a lot, but it ends up being

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quite a bit. And she lived right by me, so

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that was one of the things that made it very nice.

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Yeah. Yeah, for a for establishing a new relationship, living

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kind of far apart is inconvenient, but if the relationship ends,

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then it's real.

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Nice, fair enough. Yeah, absolutely is true.

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Now I've been sort of in the situation that you're

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in as far as.

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And and listen, you know about this. We did not

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talk about this on the show, but I saw her

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one other time, and that is it was the weekend

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I moved and I had decided I was going to

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treat myself to a pedicure. I pull in the parking

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lot and and we had both been to this place

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before and she's walking out and I like honked and

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waved at her, and she would not make eye contact.

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With me. She would not look at me. I pulled in,

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I was pulled in behind her, then I pulled in

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next to her, and I mean, I'm still was one

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of the most shocking things that she would not acknowledge

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my existence.

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Were I'm just asking questions. I'm just curious. I'm just

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trying to see the scene in my mind, Like when

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you honked and wave, was it like in any way

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angry or aggressive at all? Or are you just like, hey, like,

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what was it?

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What was what was I mean at this point, it's me, Yeah,

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this is someone that I spent every day with walked

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out of my door and at this point, you know,

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I had not seen her in six weeks, and uh

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so it was it was shy. I was so stunned

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by the fact that I'm just pulling in and thinking,

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not thinking about running into her and then she comes

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walking out it But no, in no way was it

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threatening or any or anything else. I was just honestly,

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I wanted to say hi.

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Yeah, so kind of getting back to this. So living

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kind of far apart from one another is difficult at

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the beginning of a relationship, you know, trying to close

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that gap, you know, at the distance between the two.

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But if the relationship ends, kind of nice because then

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you don't have to worry about running into them. But

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on the flip side, when you live, work, go out

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to eat and stuff in the same area when you meet,

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it's great for the relationship because you're so close already.

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But if the relationship ends, you're still living and working

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and eating in that same neighborhood with the X, and

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now you have to navigate that. And that's the area

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of your relationship where I have some familiarity because I

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had a previous serious relationship and when I moved out,

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I moved, you know, basically still in the same area

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when I went to go stay with friends, and so

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we ran into each other a few times, and a

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couple of the times it wasn't so fun. So it's

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it's a it's it can be an awkward thing, like

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at one point it was it was meant. It was

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brought to my attention at one point in the wake

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of that relationship that we needed to draw lines and

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we needed to split up venues, like one venue would

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be hers, another venue would be mine. Kind of a thing,

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and somehow we weren't allowed to go into these other spaces.

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I flat out denied that. I'm like, I'm not doing that.

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I took sort of your approach, which was, I'm I'm

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going to live my life and I'm not going to

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worry about where you may or may not be right.

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I although I had no idea where she had moved,

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because she just cut off all contact with me, But

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I I knew that sooner or later. I mean, I

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knew I would see her, see her. I mean obviously

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grocery store, all, you know, various things. It's kind of inevitable. Yeah,

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so yeah, it's you know, at first it was shocking

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and you're like, oh crap, that's her. And then then

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after a while it's like, okay, well, and especially after

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the nail salon thing, it's like, I don't understand why

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why you would not even look at me or acknowledge

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my existence or you know, someone you spent seven months

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with and said was the love of your life and

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you wanted to spend it forever with and then all

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of a sudden and like I said, we never had

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a there was no blow up. I still I still

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to this day have never gotten anythinging, Hey, I this

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is why I left. Yeah, but you can't even say

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hello and be cordial. It was was shocking.

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Is this the strangest relationship you've had?

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It's the strangest breakup. And and this is one of

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the things my previous breakups, A lot of my relationships

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I was an alcoholic and so they were messy and ugly,

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but they were bad relationships. This was the first time

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in my life I would say I really had a

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healthy relationship. I was very comfortable, the first time I

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was comfortable with someone. And I think a lot of it, ironically,

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was we had some shared trauma from our mothers and

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kind of abandonment issues, you know, And I told her

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that was that was the thing, and I knew she

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had had some issues with that too with her dad.

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But we both had mothers that were selfish, self centered

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and at the end of the day, didn't care about

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anything but themselves, and we both hated that. And then

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it turns out she that's exactly how she acted.

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That stings, Yeah, that sings. Oh god.

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It's the worst part of it is is that I

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never saw it coming from her. I said, we we

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had we had so much fun together. We we just

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hung out all the time, and it was wonderful, and

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then it's like, oh, it's too and then you realize

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that's the problem. Oh it's too good, So you instead

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of wait, from what everything I've read, yeah, you know,

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it's the mindset of, well, before that person leaves me,

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I'm going.

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To leave them, gotcha? Uh? And and so and not

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only did you know after seven months together, not only

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does she ghost you, but she also it's a twenty

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first century now, so you can't just break up with

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anybody anymore because now there's social media implications. One of

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the first things. I don't know if any of the

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social media platforms have this or not, but I think

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they should institute it, which is if I'm not even

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sure if Facebook still has the inner relationship, it's complicated

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whatever the designations were at one point. I've been married

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since twenty twelve, so I don't know what the updates

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have come with minds pretty much just said married to

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Terra for quite a while. But what I'm getting at is,

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when you break up with someone in the twenty first century,

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it's like, Okay, how are we going to handle this

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on social media? You know, there needs to be a

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function on social media to be like, Okay, wipe all

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photos with this person, because that's what a lot of

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people do. Like first steps is like I now have

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to wipe from existence any sort of evidence on social

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media that this relationship ever happened.

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She did that to me. I looked at her social

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media and I was like, oh, you have deleted every

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picture of us. And at that point, this is the

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funny thing. You want to know what's going on. And

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I knew her, you know her like Instagram was set

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to private and h but I had to unfriend her

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because I I I was in a very dark place.

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And it's like if I had seen her, if she

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had posted a picture, you know, just a couple of

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times she posted, it just tore me up. And so

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I was like, okay, I can't do this to myself.

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And then she she has since blocked me. Why. I

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don't know. Again somehow I'm the villain. I guess.

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Did you see that she had blocked you before you

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saw her as living nearby, or before you saw her

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at the nail salon? Or did that happen after.

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Before I knew we were living close by. So I

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but sometime, I guess sometime maybe it was I don't

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know exactly because I quit looking for a while and

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then I had one picture left, and then that she

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was tagged in, and then you know, I clicked on it. It

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was like this person doesn't exist. I'm like, oh, she

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blocked me.

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Yikes. So so here's the other interesting angle when it

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comes to dating in the twenty first century with social

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media implications, and that is for the third wheels, because

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when when someone is in a serious relationship, what happens.

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You meet their friends, right, you meet their family. Well,

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you also now become friends with them on social media, right, So.

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And I know that you are still friends with her,

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and and but I have never asked, Like, I'm I

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trust that if there was anything significant, you would give

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me a heads up, so I didn't get blindsided. Other

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than that, it's like I don't want to know.

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Yeah, first of all, I absolutely would. But it's interesting

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because it's, like, God, it's interesting on so many levels

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from the outside looking in, from the third wheel perspective,

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it's really effed up because I feel badly for you.

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You're one of my closest friends. You're one of the

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people on this planet I've known for a very long time,

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and I'm obviously on your side. And I didn't realize

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before you guys were together that she and I were

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already friends on social media.

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I didn't realize she was a fan of the show,

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and I mean going back to the radio days and

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then the podcast.

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So when you got you know, when the relationship ended,

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I looked to see if she had you know, canceled

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me as well, and it showed that we still followed

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each other. I was like, oh, okay, all right then.

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So the other angle then is since she hasn't blocked

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me as far as I know, I haven't checked, do

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you need me to Do you want me to unfriend her?

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This is the weird conversations you have in the twenty

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first century when it comes to dating. When someone's relationship

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is I got to friends with the X on social media?

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Am I supposed to keep that? Do I unfollow? What

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do I do there?

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No, you shouldn't do a thing like I said it.

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There's no jealousy or anything else. And so no, I

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don't you know, feel like there's some betrayal or anything

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that you're still friends with her and you should be

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and you know, it's it is what it is, So

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I have no, it doesn't bother me at all that

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you all are friends. And you know, like I said,

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I I have gotten to a point and this is

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age and this is everything else. And you know, I

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pray that she finds peace and happiness and heals from

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whatever ails her. I'm sorry that she, yeah, thinks I'm

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such an awful person and won't talk to me. But

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it is what it is.

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It's amazing there there. There are sometimes when I hear

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this version of you say things like you just did,

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and I wish I could take the recording of it

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and play it for the tray. I knew twenty years ago.

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Just to see, just to see what he would say.

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July twenty first, twenty twenty six. Let's celebrate with some birthdays. Ah,

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hang on all right? Turning sixty nine today, John Lovett's

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former Saturday Night Live cast member, famous for characters like

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Tommy Flanagan, the pathological liar. John Lovett's sixty nine today

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to me part of what I consider to be the heyday,

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like the golden era of Saturday Night Live when he

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him Phil Hartman, Like that nineties era Saturday Night Live

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was really really solid, and some of the late eighties

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as well. I think I think he kind of carried

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over from the eighties and in the nineties.

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So you know, and it's it's funny how we remember

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SNL because like SNL in the eighties gets panned a lot,

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but it was actually really good. I mean the Eddie

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Murphy days. Yeah, Joe Piscopo, that that.

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Kevin Neelan, the Blonde Jackson, Victoria Victoria Jackson. There were

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so many great cast members. Phil Hartman I was one

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of the all time best.

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Oh it's gosh, I've I went back. I've watched a

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few episodes of news Radio that such a good show.

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Ed you talk about ripping open a time capsule when

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it comes to a television show and seeing people that

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were a part of that show back then and knowing

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what some of them are doing now you whoof.

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I mean, Joe Rogan is the you know, has hair.

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He's like the sixth person down on the cast list

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in that show.

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Oh yeah, I mean it's a fantastic cast and you know, sadly,

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you know, Phil Hartman's no longer with us, but I

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and Andy Dick is such a mess. But one of

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the funny in the second episode, it's like they're doing

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a story on Joey but a Fuco and they're like

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and he Dick comes out of the booth and they're going, uh,

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it's a but a fu go not what you said?

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And he said, I don't get it, and he's like

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in a second, and they're like.

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Oh God, that's up there. Like in our radio days

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about whether or not to say ship's creak on the radio,

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it's like, well, I mean it's s C H I

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T T S and you know, Canada is saying it's so,

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why can't we And it's with a name like but Afuco.

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It's like you want to make sure you say that

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one right.

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Yeah, don't don't. Don't get the the hard cut in there?

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H Was that? So? Whenever I hear the name but

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a Fuco? Was it on news radio where they were

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maybe this scene you're talking about where they were trying

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to like butt of fuoco. I don't know why that's

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in my head. I don't know if it was a

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Saturday night live bit or maybe it was on news radio,

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but for some reason, I remember someone somewhere saying butt

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of fuoco And I don't know why that's in my brain.

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Now. This one obviously clearly he said, but a fucko.

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At uh.

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But yeah, that that was It's actually it's it's a

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funny show.

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That's a great show. I've h I don't know is

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it streaming anywhere, because that's a show I would love

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to go back and watch.

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Yeah, it's on Roku.

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Okay, the yeah, because I just off the top of

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my head thinking about the cast. Obviously you got Andy Dick,

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Joe Rogan, I'm brain farting Phil Hartman. I'm brain farting

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on the guy who was the program director that was

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from Kids in the Hall, Dave Fully, Dave Foley. He

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was like the star of the show. And then the

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station manager or owner I forget, which is Stephen Root,

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who's the guy that goes on to play Milton in

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Office Space wanting his staple or he's also the guy

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that was the middle aged guy with the wife that

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hated him in Dodgeball. I like Steven Root's one of

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my favorite actors. I think I've loved pretty much everything

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I've seen him in. And when he's Jimmy James and

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news Radio, he is so good. Oh yeah, it is freaky.

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And watching that show news Radio. That show was on

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around the time that I was starting to get into radio,

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and so when I've gone back and watched episodes of it,

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it is so relatable from a radio employee perspective. Oh yo, no,

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it is they did they did good.

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Yeah. No, it's a you know, fantastic cast. Uh Mar Tierney,

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Uh like she was great in in the nineties and

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two thousands and and some really good roles. But no,

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that that cast is phenomenal, and it's it's a funny,

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funny show that it's a gym.

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And since we're talking, we since you know, we went

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off on this tangent because it's John Lovett's birthday, we

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mentioned Andy Dick from news radio. It's important to mention

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the altercation that happened between John Lovetts and Andy Dick

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after after Phil Hartman died. Uh. And that is the

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physical confrontation from a bitter years long feud regarding the

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tragic nineteen ninety eight deaths of their friends Phil and

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Brn Hartman. You ever heard about this? No ooh, this

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is good. So John Lovet's blamemed Andy Dick for Brent

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Hartman's relapse into cocaine addiction. Brent Hartman's Phil Hartman's wife,

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which preceded her fatally shooting her husband Phil and then herself.

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00:29:12.279 --> 00:29:16.240
Andy Dick has denied providing her with the drugs. At

462
00:29:16.240 --> 00:29:19.759
a restaurant in West Hollywood, a drunken Andy Dick allegedly

463
00:29:19.880 --> 00:29:23.519
approached John Lovetz and told them I put the Phil

464
00:29:23.519 --> 00:29:27.000
Hartman hex on you. You're the next one to die, before

465
00:29:27.039 --> 00:29:30.640
downing the drinks at John Lovettz's table. When the two

466
00:29:30.640 --> 00:29:33.519
comedians saw each other at the Laugh Factory a year later,

467
00:29:33.799 --> 00:29:37.200
Lovitz demanded an apology for the hex. Andy Dick refused,

468
00:29:37.440 --> 00:29:41.079
which prompted Lovitz to physically assault him. And by physically

469
00:29:41.119 --> 00:29:43.279
assault him, I mean he grabbed Andy Dick by the

470
00:29:43.359 --> 00:29:48.720
lapels and repeatedly smashed his head and back into a bar, which,

471
00:29:48.880 --> 00:29:51.640
let's be honest, lots of people had wanted to do

472
00:29:51.720 --> 00:29:55.480
that to Andy Dick. So kudos to John Lovettz and

473
00:29:55.519 --> 00:29:57.440
honest to God. When I first heard this story, I

474
00:29:57.519 --> 00:30:00.000
was like, John Lovetz.

475
00:29:59.640 --> 00:30:01.680
Did, Yeah, that's like.

476
00:30:01.599 --> 00:30:03.519
That's not a guy I would expect to go off

477
00:30:03.559 --> 00:30:05.720
and just beat well out of somebody.

478
00:30:05.279 --> 00:30:08.240
And especially you look at what has become of Andy Dick,

479
00:30:08.279 --> 00:30:10.440
and then you think, eh, he might have been right,

480
00:30:10.480 --> 00:30:13.960
because Andy Dick clearly now looks like someone who has

481
00:30:14.000 --> 00:30:16.319
been using drugs way too long and he is just.

482
00:30:16.480 --> 00:30:21.640
Fried, absolutely and so like in that scenario, like in

483
00:30:21.680 --> 00:30:23.960
your scenario, I'm team Tray. When it comes to you

484
00:30:24.000 --> 00:30:26.200
and your ex girlfriend in love, it's Andy Dick. I'm

485
00:30:26.240 --> 00:30:31.319
team Love. It's yea, absolutely smack that bitch up. So

486
00:30:31.680 --> 00:30:35.599
happy Happy birthday, John Lovetts sixty nine. Josh Hartnett is

487
00:30:35.799 --> 00:30:37.680
forty eight. He's had He's one of those guys that's

488
00:30:37.680 --> 00:30:41.039
had an interesting Hollywood career. He's one of the stars

489
00:30:41.039 --> 00:30:44.240
of Black Hawk Down. He was in Pearl Harbor opposite

490
00:30:44.319 --> 00:30:49.000
Ben Affleck in that weird ass Michael Bay depiction of

491
00:30:49.039 --> 00:30:56.000
Pearl Harbor got that was weird. Although I always like

492
00:30:56.079 --> 00:30:57.839
the movie.

493
00:30:58.160 --> 00:30:58.400
I do.

494
00:30:59.480 --> 00:31:01.920
It's a movie I can watch pretty much anytime it's on.

495
00:31:02.279 --> 00:31:04.680
I mean, it's it's a it's Michael, it's a Michael

496
00:31:04.720 --> 00:31:08.079
Bay movie. And especially in that time there's a lot

497
00:31:08.119 --> 00:31:11.640
of explosions, a lot of you know, very dramatic scenes, but.

498
00:31:12.440 --> 00:31:15.599
It's good and uh and look, I mean, if we're

499
00:31:15.640 --> 00:31:17.640
being honest in the nineties, in that time, in that

500
00:31:17.759 --> 00:31:22.839
time frame, Ben Affleck, Josh Hartnett falling in love with

501
00:31:22.880 --> 00:31:27.759
the same woman. Uh, played by a very attractive actress.

502
00:31:29.839 --> 00:31:37.119
I am absolutely brain fighting on her name. Oh she was.

503
00:31:37.160 --> 00:31:39.119
She was one of my one of like my nineties

504
00:31:39.160 --> 00:31:44.599
and early two thousands crushes Kate Kate Beckinsale, especially with

505
00:31:44.680 --> 00:31:47.200
her her role in the vampire movies that that that

506
00:31:47.279 --> 00:31:52.440
she did. Whow uh So anyway, you know, when you

507
00:31:52.480 --> 00:31:56.039
think about two guys battling it over over a girl,

508
00:31:56.119 --> 00:31:58.160
You're like, no, man, we're not doing that. Bros before

509
00:31:58.160 --> 00:32:00.000
hose kind of a thing. But then when you see

510
00:32:00.160 --> 00:32:03.119
Kate Beckhamsale in Pearl Harbor, You're like, I get it. Yeah,

511
00:32:04.000 --> 00:32:06.400
I'd punch you, Trey.

512
00:32:07.640 --> 00:32:09.039
I'd expect nothing less.

513
00:32:09.720 --> 00:32:13.519
And I'd expect you to hit back. So Josh Harten

514
00:32:13.519 --> 00:32:14.960
at forty eight D, like I said, he's had one

515
00:32:14.960 --> 00:32:17.839
of those interesting Hollywood careers because he started out really

516
00:32:17.880 --> 00:32:20.720
hot and then it kind of cooled off for some reason,

517
00:32:20.839 --> 00:32:23.400
no idea why, and then he's had a bit of

518
00:32:23.400 --> 00:32:25.559
a resurgence. He was in a movie in an m

519
00:32:25.640 --> 00:32:28.519
Night Shyamalan movie last year a couple of years ago,

520
00:32:28.720 --> 00:32:32.640
where the movie was called Trap and I love the

521
00:32:32.680 --> 00:32:36.279
premise of the film. The movie was mostly good, it

522
00:32:36.359 --> 00:32:40.599
was okay, are you familiar with this at all? So

523
00:32:40.640 --> 00:32:45.519
the movie was called Trap. Josh Hartnett goes to a

524
00:32:45.559 --> 00:32:51.200
concert sort of like Taylor Swift Lady Gaga type concert. Okay, okay.

525
00:32:51.960 --> 00:32:56.359
He takes his daughter to this concert and the concert

526
00:32:56.400 --> 00:33:00.720
is a trap that the FBI and the police have

527
00:33:01.000 --> 00:33:05.279
set to catch a serial killer. Yeah, and he's the

528
00:33:05.319 --> 00:33:06.079
serial killer.

529
00:33:06.200 --> 00:33:09.400
Okay, Yeah, I remember. I want to say that he

530
00:33:09.440 --> 00:33:12.319
was on Netflix for a while and I remember I

531
00:33:12.359 --> 00:33:13.799
was like, that looks really good.

532
00:33:15.799 --> 00:33:17.359
I mean that like I said, I mean, the premise

533
00:33:17.440 --> 00:33:19.880
is awesome. Like when I first saw the trailer for that,

534
00:33:19.960 --> 00:33:23.160
I was like, ooh, that is good. Uh and you

535
00:33:23.160 --> 00:33:25.920
know it's it's an m Night Shamalan movie. So it

536
00:33:25.920 --> 00:33:29.880
didn't quite stick the landing. It was good, it was interesting,

537
00:33:30.559 --> 00:33:32.799
and it turned out it was a nice vehicle for

538
00:33:32.960 --> 00:33:36.119
m Night Shyamalan to promote his daughter's musical career because

539
00:33:37.000 --> 00:33:41.119
his daughter played this singer in the movie and the

540
00:33:41.200 --> 00:33:44.119
music that they played was some of her original stuff.

541
00:33:44.519 --> 00:33:48.880
What was his he did the Blair Witch project or

542
00:33:49.000 --> 00:33:52.119
is that something? Well he didn't what made him famous?

543
00:33:52.720 --> 00:33:58.319
Signs? Okay, Signs did it? And to be fair, yeah,

544
00:33:58.359 --> 00:34:02.000
it was worth it. Some of his other movies not

545
00:34:02.079 --> 00:34:06.359
so much. I'm sorry. I actually no Signs was him,

546
00:34:06.759 --> 00:34:08.599
but I don't think that was the one that got

547
00:34:08.679 --> 00:34:10.400
him his start. The one that got him his start

548
00:34:10.480 --> 00:34:12.880
was I See Dead People.

549
00:34:14.440 --> 00:34:18.800
Oh, oh, okay, Sixth Sense.

550
00:34:19.400 --> 00:34:22.719
That's it, Yes, Sixth Sense. That was his breakout thing.

551
00:34:23.079 --> 00:34:26.920
Sixth Sense was his breakout thing. Signs was really really good.

552
00:34:26.960 --> 00:34:29.079
I love that movie. I love Signs. I think that's

553
00:34:29.119 --> 00:34:31.199
so good. It was so clever, so well done. And

554
00:34:31.239 --> 00:34:32.840
then a bunch of his other movies were just kind

555
00:34:32.840 --> 00:34:37.159
of like. The Happening is my favorite of those. It

556
00:34:37.239 --> 00:34:40.119
is such a nothing burger of a movie. Have you

557
00:34:40.159 --> 00:34:42.880
ever seen that with Mark Wahlberg. I didn't mean for

558
00:34:42.920 --> 00:34:44.920
the nothing burger and the wallburger thing to be in there.

559
00:34:44.960 --> 00:34:45.880
It just kind of worked out.

560
00:34:46.639 --> 00:34:46.800
Yeah.

561
00:34:46.840 --> 00:34:50.119
I think it was Zoey Deschanel. Mark Wahlberg was the Happening.

562
00:34:50.320 --> 00:34:53.360
And they can't figure out why people are killing themselves.

563
00:34:53.519 --> 00:34:55.480
Like the movie starts with, oh, it's a normal day,

564
00:34:55.519 --> 00:34:57.480
blah blah blah, and then all of a sudden, all

565
00:34:57.480 --> 00:35:00.000
these people are just like throwing themselves off buildings and stuff.

566
00:35:02.280 --> 00:35:06.119
Turns out it was the trees spoiler alert. The trees

567
00:35:06.119 --> 00:35:10.800
are just going damn you. I know. Sorry, man, that's

568
00:35:11.079 --> 00:35:16.119
the big reveal of the movie. It's the trees. Two hours,

569
00:35:16.599 --> 00:35:18.519
it's the trees, Like, God help me.

570
00:35:18.760 --> 00:35:20.760
Are they like Ensign Lord of the Rings or are

571
00:35:20.800 --> 00:35:21.559
they just trees?

572
00:35:22.079 --> 00:35:22.880
No, They're just trees.

573
00:35:22.960 --> 00:35:25.199
Oh yeah, that's blowing in the wind. That sounds like

574
00:35:25.199 --> 00:35:27.079
a movie I'd be very disappointed with. So thanks for

575
00:35:27.119 --> 00:35:27.599
the spoiler.

576
00:35:27.960 --> 00:35:34.480
Everybody was trust I don't know if he's a disappointment

577
00:35:34.559 --> 00:35:36.920
or not. But Rory Colkin is thirty seven. I say,

578
00:35:36.920 --> 00:35:38.440
I don't know if he's a disappointment or not. He

579
00:35:38.480 --> 00:35:41.039
comes from the Culkin family. He's just one of the

580
00:35:41.079 --> 00:35:45.840
youngest kids. So Rory Colkin is known for films such

581
00:35:45.840 --> 00:35:53.480
as Signs, Lords of Chaos, Black Mirror. So Rory Colkin

582
00:35:53.559 --> 00:35:57.760
got his start in Hollywood by playing the younger version

583
00:35:57.880 --> 00:36:04.639
of his older brothers and other projects. Because you've got

584
00:36:04.719 --> 00:36:09.760
Macaulay Culkin is the main Culkin kid, and then Kieren

585
00:36:10.320 --> 00:36:14.480
Kieran Culkin is the one that's killing it with everything

586
00:36:14.559 --> 00:36:15.239
he touches.

587
00:36:16.039 --> 00:36:20.079
I just it's interesting you brought that because I just

588
00:36:20.119 --> 00:36:21.480
started watching Succession.

589
00:36:23.000 --> 00:36:25.519
How good is that? I've heard nothing but great things fantastic.

590
00:36:25.679 --> 00:36:32.360
I mean, I'm I'm seven episodes in the first season,

591
00:36:33.039 --> 00:36:40.360
but it is fantastic. Cat I love Brian Cox, like

592
00:36:41.320 --> 00:36:46.119
that's something about him, and so I have found it

593
00:36:47.039 --> 00:36:48.159
absolutely fantastic.

594
00:36:49.119 --> 00:36:51.599
Everyone I've ever talked to that has said anything about

595
00:36:51.639 --> 00:36:55.119
this show, it's been glowing. It's on my list of

596
00:36:55.159 --> 00:36:58.519
things to watch. I just can't quite get there yet. Yeah,

597
00:36:58.519 --> 00:37:01.199
I don't even remember. I saw something about it and

598
00:37:01.199 --> 00:37:04.880
I was like, you know what, I was kind of.

599
00:37:05.239 --> 00:37:08.280
I didn't want to get any more. I have found

600
00:37:08.360 --> 00:37:10.079
that I have to be in the right and mindset

601
00:37:10.119 --> 00:37:11.360
to watch Game of Thrones.

602
00:37:13.159 --> 00:37:16.679
That makes sense that you got to pay attention, man, That's.

603
00:37:16.519 --> 00:37:19.119
Yeah, it's like you've really got to be watching it.

604
00:37:19.159 --> 00:37:22.400
And there's sometimes so I was also on HPOS. I

605
00:37:22.440 --> 00:37:24.960
started watching Succession because I was gonna watch that, or

606
00:37:25.000 --> 00:37:27.440
I never watched The Wire, and everyone has said The

607
00:37:27.480 --> 00:37:28.719
Wire was fantastic.

608
00:37:29.159 --> 00:37:31.880
I saw a couple of episodes back when it first aired,

609
00:37:31.920 --> 00:37:33.599
and I really liked it, but I just didn't. I

610
00:37:33.599 --> 00:37:35.199
guess I didn't have time to watch it when it

611
00:37:35.199 --> 00:37:37.400
actually aired back in the day. And that's I'm with you,

612
00:37:37.480 --> 00:37:39.199
that's one that I want to go back and actually

613
00:37:39.239 --> 00:37:41.519
watch because it's one of the greatest television zones of

614
00:37:41.559 --> 00:37:42.760
all time according to people.

615
00:37:43.639 --> 00:37:46.920
But succession so far, like I said, I think I'm

616
00:37:46.920 --> 00:37:49.320
seven episodes in the first season, fantastic.

617
00:37:50.760 --> 00:37:53.239
Two more birthdays. I want to mention both. They're deceased,

618
00:37:53.239 --> 00:37:56.559
but they're very prominent ones. Robin Williams would have been

619
00:37:56.599 --> 00:37:59.960
seventy five today. He passed away in twenty fourteen.

620
00:38:00.480 --> 00:38:03.119
Have you read the stories about what was why he

621
00:38:03.159 --> 00:38:11.960
committed suicide. No, Basically he was in a there's a

622
00:38:12.039 --> 00:38:14.000
name for it, but he was in a very advanced

623
00:38:14.360 --> 00:38:18.440
stage of dementius last Alzheimer's, and he was at a

624
00:38:18.440 --> 00:38:21.039
point where they said the last movie he did that

625
00:38:21.119 --> 00:38:23.000
he had to have Q cards for everything. He couldn't

626
00:38:23.039 --> 00:38:29.719
remember any lines. And so evidently when they did an

627
00:38:29.760 --> 00:38:32.719
autopsy on him and they figured this out and said, sadly,

628
00:38:36.559 --> 00:38:40.159
at least today they probably could have slowed down the progression.

629
00:38:40.519 --> 00:38:43.920
But that's why. But he is one of the few

630
00:38:44.400 --> 00:38:50.559
celebrities with his death actually really made me sad because

631
00:38:52.119 --> 00:38:55.639
he was such a part of from Morgan Mindy on

632
00:38:55.840 --> 00:39:01.039
up everything. He I can't really think of anything he

633
00:39:01.079 --> 00:39:02.239
did that was really bad.

634
00:39:03.039 --> 00:39:06.199
Same, Uh, it's sort of like we grew up watching

635
00:39:06.280 --> 00:39:09.800
all his stuff. Yeah, from like you mentioned, from Morcan

636
00:39:09.880 --> 00:39:17.400
Mindy to Hook, the Unting Look, Goodwill, Hunting Dead Poet Society,

637
00:39:17.760 --> 00:39:20.320
all the work he did, all his stand up stuff.

638
00:39:21.000 --> 00:39:24.920
What was it? Uh? The what was the big comedy

639
00:39:25.079 --> 00:39:27.400
comedy relief? I remember watching those and and he and

640
00:39:27.440 --> 00:39:33.239
Billy Crystal doing those mentioning those two. The little cameo

641
00:39:33.320 --> 00:39:36.199
that the two of them did on Friends. Uh, that

642
00:39:36.320 --> 00:39:41.440
that was really funny, Patch Adams. I mean so many

643
00:39:41.519 --> 00:39:47.760
great roles Missus Doubtfire. It's yeah, speaking of stories and

644
00:39:47.800 --> 00:39:49.920
sharing things with each other. That the that the other

645
00:39:50.000 --> 00:39:54.599
didn't know. Did you know what Robin Williams did to

646
00:39:54.880 --> 00:39:56.840
Sally Field on the set of Missus Doubtfire?

647
00:39:59.440 --> 00:40:06.559
Yes, I something about it. It was like the courtroom

648
00:40:06.599 --> 00:40:08.920
scene and she had just lost.

649
00:40:09.639 --> 00:40:12.679
Yeah, for the sake of me telling this brief story,

650
00:40:12.920 --> 00:40:15.360
say uh, no, I don't tell me, No, Dan tell me.

651
00:40:16.119 --> 00:40:19.039
I'd be happy to trey. So while filming Missus Doubtfire,

652
00:40:19.480 --> 00:40:22.519
they're filming, you know, this emotional scene and Sally it's

653
00:40:22.519 --> 00:40:25.239
like a courtroom scene. You know, Sally Field's character it's divorcing,

654
00:40:25.440 --> 00:40:33.880
you know, Daniel, Robin Williams's character and something like Robin

655
00:40:33.920 --> 00:40:36.119
Williams could tell something was wrong, something was off with

656
00:40:36.159 --> 00:40:42.760
Sally Field, and he's like, what's wrong, And she told him,

657
00:40:42.920 --> 00:40:45.079
my I just found out that my dad died. And

658
00:40:45.280 --> 00:40:49.599
apparently they'd had this strained relationship, but she said that

659
00:40:49.679 --> 00:40:51.639
she was sort of in a in a place trying

660
00:40:51.679 --> 00:40:53.519
to process this whole thing that had just happened. She

661
00:40:53.639 --> 00:40:59.559
just learned that her dad had died, and she was like,

662
00:40:59.679 --> 00:41:01.239
she had to go to work that day. She had to,

663
00:41:01.360 --> 00:41:03.239
They had they had to stay on schedule. They had

664
00:41:03.239 --> 00:41:05.880
all these reasoned studio stuff. Producers are like, we have

665
00:41:05.960 --> 00:41:07.880
to get these shots in, we have to get this

666
00:41:07.960 --> 00:41:15.159
movie done, blah blah blah. And so she tells him, well, yeah,

667
00:41:14.920 --> 00:41:19.119
my dad died. And and when the way Sally Field

668
00:41:19.119 --> 00:41:23.760
told this story that I saw, you know, she emphasizes

669
00:41:23.800 --> 00:41:28.880
that this is basically the height of Robin Williams's career,

670
00:41:30.119 --> 00:41:37.239
and so he just they shared like an emotional moment together,

671
00:41:37.320 --> 00:41:39.639
and he offered his sympathies and things, and then he

672
00:41:39.679 --> 00:41:44.320
stood up and said we're done for today and just

673
00:41:44.360 --> 00:41:46.599
shut the whole f and movie down so she could

674
00:41:46.639 --> 00:41:48.920
go and do her thing and then once she was ready,

675
00:41:48.960 --> 00:41:51.000
she came back and then they finished the movie. But

676
00:41:51.559 --> 00:41:55.079
I mean she was like, that was his movie and

677
00:41:55.119 --> 00:41:57.639
obviously he knew he had the power to call that shot.

678
00:41:57.679 --> 00:41:59.920
And he's like, we're done for the day. Well, okay.

679
00:42:00.519 --> 00:42:02.280
One of his other one of the other great stories

680
00:42:02.280 --> 00:42:07.039
about him, and one of my favorite probably maybe it's

681
00:42:07.199 --> 00:42:08.679
one of my top three all the time favorite movies

682
00:42:08.760 --> 00:42:13.559
is The Bird Cage. And obviously Nathan Lane was gay,

683
00:42:13.679 --> 00:42:16.840
but at that time that was I mean, it's so

684
00:42:16.920 --> 00:42:21.400
hard to for people to understand that of truly what

685
00:42:21.480 --> 00:42:24.280
in the closet was, but uh, they were like on

686
00:42:24.320 --> 00:42:27.719
an interview with Oprah and he Nathan Lane tells a

687
00:42:27.719 --> 00:42:29.880
story about she was kind of leaning in a direction

688
00:42:30.079 --> 00:42:32.840
of asking him kind of about sexuality and everything else

689
00:42:33.320 --> 00:42:36.039
and said Robin just stepped in and like took the

690
00:42:36.039 --> 00:42:39.800
bullet and just just kept veering off in another direction

691
00:42:40.480 --> 00:42:43.559
to shield him from having to talk about it.

692
00:42:43.559 --> 00:42:47.199
It's amazing. Yeah, it's amazing to not only uh, to

693
00:42:47.320 --> 00:42:50.559
do it, but to have the wherewithal and the acumen

694
00:42:50.719 --> 00:42:54.400
to see that unfolding and be able to do something

695
00:42:54.440 --> 00:42:59.519
about it. So, albeit posthumously, Happy birthday, Robin Williams one

696
00:42:59.559 --> 00:43:03.199
more birthday that is of a deceased person, and I

697
00:43:03.199 --> 00:43:04.519
have to admit this is one of those. I have

698
00:43:04.559 --> 00:43:08.679
a little bit of a hot take on Ernest Hemingway

699
00:43:08.760 --> 00:43:11.079
is one hundred and twenty seven today if he was

700
00:43:11.079 --> 00:43:14.159
still alive. He passed away in nineteen sixty one. He

701
00:43:14.239 --> 00:43:17.199
is the Nobel winning prize author of The Old Man

702
00:43:17.239 --> 00:43:21.119
in the Sea and For Whom the Bell Tolls, which sucks.

703
00:43:23.880 --> 00:43:26.639
Here's my hot take with Ernest Timmingway. I went to

704
00:43:26.679 --> 00:43:28.760
the bookstore last year and I was like, you know what,

705
00:43:29.079 --> 00:43:32.719
I'm going to finally read some of these classics that

706
00:43:32.760 --> 00:43:34.840
I was supposed to in high school that I just

707
00:43:34.920 --> 00:43:38.400
read the cliffs notes and went to football practice for instead. Right,

708
00:43:39.440 --> 00:43:42.920
So I went to the bookstore and I got not one,

709
00:43:43.039 --> 00:43:46.119
but two Ernest Timingway books. I said, you know what,

710
00:43:46.280 --> 00:43:48.239
I'm going to do this. I'm going to read Himingway

711
00:43:48.920 --> 00:43:53.679
like a damn man. And I read it and I

712
00:43:53.760 --> 00:44:00.639
was like, eh, look, I get it. It was it was.

713
00:44:00.800 --> 00:44:07.400
His writing style was revolutionary for the time. But and

714
00:44:07.639 --> 00:44:10.079
don't get me wrong, he does have the absolute best

715
00:44:10.159 --> 00:44:16.039
short story of all time for sale, baby Shoes never used.

716
00:44:20.400 --> 00:44:22.840
Even I was not a fan of of of the

717
00:44:22.840 --> 00:44:26.079
book that I read, the one and a half books

718
00:44:26.079 --> 00:44:26.440
I read.

719
00:44:29.000 --> 00:44:31.199
I know I had to read. I want to say

720
00:44:31.199 --> 00:44:34.679
for whom the Bell tolls? But I just don't remember.

721
00:44:35.480 --> 00:44:38.800
I don't remember it. But I think there's one of

722
00:44:38.840 --> 00:44:44.239
the fascinating things some of the literature that we grew

723
00:44:44.280 --> 00:44:47.519
up with. I think with the changes in technology has

724
00:44:49.320 --> 00:44:51.599
it's changed our perspective on how we look at it.

725
00:44:52.519 --> 00:44:53.039
What do you mean?

726
00:44:54.679 --> 00:44:56.000
I think it's harder to relate to.

727
00:44:59.039 --> 00:44:59.559
That could be.

728
00:45:02.679 --> 00:45:08.840
I mean, especially for you, for younger, if anyone thirty

729
00:45:08.840 --> 00:45:12.840
five or under, they they don't know a world without

730
00:45:13.119 --> 00:45:22.840
cell phones, without internet. And I'll tell you it sounds simple.

731
00:45:22.880 --> 00:45:28.559
But when I was in the previous relations previous previous

732
00:45:28.599 --> 00:45:33.400
relationship and she had kids, we had to kid read

733
00:45:33.400 --> 00:45:35.519
The Hardy Boys, which I always love. The Hardy Boys

734
00:45:35.559 --> 00:45:39.360
growing up to totally unrelatable now because you look at

735
00:45:39.360 --> 00:45:41.079
some of the ways they solve things. They're like, well,

736
00:45:41.119 --> 00:45:42.960
why wouldn't you just go online?

737
00:45:43.920 --> 00:45:49.320
And the Hardy Boys didn't have the Internet.

738
00:45:49.480 --> 00:45:52.519
But that's what it's. It's so hard for them to

739
00:45:52.599 --> 00:45:57.880
understand no internet, no TV TV, if you had TV,

740
00:45:58.119 --> 00:46:03.920
no only three channels and no email, having to look

741
00:46:03.960 --> 00:46:07.199
stuff up that no Google is probably the biggest thing

742
00:46:08.599 --> 00:46:12.199
that that their their minds can no longer wrap themselves around,

743
00:46:12.360 --> 00:46:18.000
is actually having to look at a dictionary, world book, encyclopedia,

744
00:46:18.719 --> 00:46:21.639
do research instead of just going hey Google.

745
00:46:22.559 --> 00:46:26.880
Yeah, but how is it that they like they have

746
00:46:26.920 --> 00:46:28.679
to be able to process some of this stuff? And

747
00:46:28.679 --> 00:46:31.119
what I mean is like if they're watching a western,

748
00:46:31.199 --> 00:46:34.840
they know that there's no Google. You know, uh, you know,

749
00:46:34.880 --> 00:46:37.679
when you're you know, watching a show about the wild wild.

750
00:46:37.880 --> 00:46:43.599
Watching watching is is different okay, reading where you actually

751
00:46:43.679 --> 00:46:46.400
have to use some imagination. It is, if I would

752
00:46:46.440 --> 00:46:48.519
say there is that is the one problem with this

753
00:46:48.599 --> 00:46:52.719
new generation is they lack the imagination because everything's visual

754
00:46:52.760 --> 00:46:53.119
for them.

755
00:46:53.599 --> 00:46:55.639
It's all spoon fed and it's like they don't have

756
00:46:55.679 --> 00:46:57.760
to come up with anything in their mind. It's issues

757
00:46:57.760 --> 00:46:59.199
you're right there on the tablet.

758
00:46:58.920 --> 00:47:01.280
And it's why it's why they don't read.

759
00:47:03.320 --> 00:47:07.199
So the book that I read all of by Ernest

760
00:47:07.239 --> 00:47:09.920
Hemingway was a Farewell to Arms, one of his you know,

761
00:47:10.000 --> 00:47:15.320
famous ones, and I got about halfway through for Whom

762
00:47:15.320 --> 00:47:17.360
the Bell Tolls and I was just like, why am

763
00:47:17.400 --> 00:47:19.840
I forcing myself to finish this. I'm just I'm not

764
00:47:19.960 --> 00:47:23.800
enjoying it. Look, I'm all about a brief writing style,

765
00:47:23.880 --> 00:47:26.559
but the way he did it, it just seemed I don't.

766
00:47:27.480 --> 00:47:29.960
I guess it's I guess like with Himingway, it's it's

767
00:47:30.000 --> 00:47:32.239
either a love or a hate thing. I guess some

768
00:47:32.280 --> 00:47:34.760
people love it, and that's fine if that's your jam. Cool,

769
00:47:36.119 --> 00:47:39.639
But I will say the ending of Farewell to Arms

770
00:47:40.679 --> 00:47:43.880
didn't expect that, So I give him props on that.

771
00:47:44.440 --> 00:47:45.559
Do you want me to tell you or are you

772
00:47:45.599 --> 00:47:48.400
worried about me spoiling a book that's almost one hundred

773
00:47:48.440 --> 00:47:48.800
years old?

774
00:47:48.800 --> 00:47:49.639
I think you're safe.

775
00:47:50.239 --> 00:47:55.280
Okay. So he plays an ambulance driver in the First

776
00:47:55.280 --> 00:47:59.480
World War, Okay, And he meets a woman and they

777
00:47:59.519 --> 00:48:04.239
fall in love, and I believe they and it's I'm

778
00:48:04.280 --> 00:48:06.039
thinking about the book now and I'm like, this is

779
00:48:06.079 --> 00:48:09.760
so bad. But the ending is he meets this woman.

780
00:48:10.199 --> 00:48:11.960
All right, He's met this woman and they end up

781
00:48:11.960 --> 00:48:13.840
I think they end up getting married. She gets pregnant

782
00:48:14.000 --> 00:48:16.440
and at the end of the movie, she and the

783
00:48:16.440 --> 00:48:19.440
baby both die and that's the end of the book,

784
00:48:20.199 --> 00:48:22.400
which honestly, I gave him a lot of credit for.

785
00:48:22.519 --> 00:48:24.840
I was like, I did not see that coming. Props

786
00:48:24.840 --> 00:48:27.679
to Ernest himming Away on the plot twist.

787
00:48:28.840 --> 00:48:31.760
Now, I think i've that that sounds familiar, So I

788
00:48:31.760 --> 00:48:35.360
don't know if maybe I I I don't think I

789
00:48:35.400 --> 00:48:38.000
read that, but that that ending sounds very familiar. So

790
00:48:38.239 --> 00:48:39.800
either you're not the first person to tell me that,

791
00:48:39.920 --> 00:48:40.519
or I don't know.

792
00:48:41.000 --> 00:48:43.639
Yeah, I also felt, you know, like at the end

793
00:48:43.719 --> 00:48:46.760
of that Hemmingway novel where the wife and the baby

794
00:48:46.800 --> 00:48:55.280
both die and I'm thinking, lucky bastards.

795
00:48:57.800 --> 00:49:00.239
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Back inside the Treehouse, I'm Dan along with Trey. Uh Trey.

804
00:49:28.159 --> 00:49:31.760
Have you ever spotted cheese on a lady?

805
00:49:34.119 --> 00:49:36.000
Huh?

806
00:49:36.280 --> 00:49:41.480
It's probably the response I expected. I saw this on Reddit.

807
00:49:42.679 --> 00:49:49.000
My boyfriend spotted cheese on me I'm so embarrassed, and

808
00:49:49.079 --> 00:49:50.239
then she had to edit it.

809
00:49:52.920 --> 00:49:58.599
Like you know, you say like thighs, like cottage cheese,

810
00:49:59.039 --> 00:49:59.840
like you know, like.

811
00:50:01.800 --> 00:50:07.760
Okay, She writes, my boyfriend spotted cheese on me. I'm

812
00:50:07.800 --> 00:50:11.119
so embarrassed. Then she had to go back and make

813
00:50:11.159 --> 00:50:15.239
an edit. She edits and says, sorry for calling it cheese. Lol,

814
00:50:15.599 --> 00:50:20.800
I mean discharge. My boyfriend spotted discharge. English is not

815
00:50:20.920 --> 00:50:25.760
my first language. She says. This happened yesterday. I promise

816
00:50:25.840 --> 00:50:28.400
I am a very hygienic person and I take that

817
00:50:28.400 --> 00:50:33.039
stuff seriously. Yesterday, however, I had to hurry through the shower.

818
00:50:33.079 --> 00:50:36.159
Of course, I washed my private parts, but clearly not

819
00:50:36.320 --> 00:50:40.320
well enough. In the late afternoon evening, things got hot

820
00:50:40.400 --> 00:50:44.960
and heavy. My boyfriend went downtown. Everything was normal after

821
00:50:45.039 --> 00:50:50.440
five minutes. I guess he got in there more and

822
00:50:50.559 --> 00:50:54.000
she says that's when he stopped and said, you showered today, right?

823
00:50:54.920 --> 00:50:57.599
She says, I swear my stomach dropped. I don't know why,

824
00:50:57.679 --> 00:50:59.760
but I'm so scared of being perceived as dirty or

825
00:50:59.800 --> 00:51:05.400
un hygienic. Anyways, I responded yes. His response, you got

826
00:51:05.440 --> 00:51:14.000
some cheese. She goes on to say, I wanted to die.

827
00:51:14.960 --> 00:51:17.360
He did did he say this as he is getting

828
00:51:17.440 --> 00:51:21.400
dressed and leaving and running away, like.

829
00:51:21.400 --> 00:51:24.320
As he's closing this running down the hall, you got

830
00:51:24.320 --> 00:51:25.880
some cheese?

831
00:51:27.079 --> 00:51:27.320
Hey?

832
00:51:27.920 --> 00:51:34.039
Just well, it's either that or you grab a package. Yeah,

833
00:51:34.079 --> 00:51:36.079
it's either that or you grab a package of rits.

834
00:51:37.840 --> 00:51:44.320
Oh h. She says he couldn't. She says he said

835
00:51:44.360 --> 00:51:49.880
he couldn't taste anything weird. But actually my tasted pretty neutral,

836
00:51:50.840 --> 00:51:54.039
as he before has described a slightly acidic taste, and

837
00:51:54.119 --> 00:51:57.159
he said it was a small amount. Nothing crazy. At

838
00:51:57.199 --> 00:51:58.960
this point, I was one hundred percent sure that this

839
00:51:59.079 --> 00:52:01.679
was a mood killer for him him, but no, it

840
00:52:01.840 --> 00:52:07.719
actually wasn't. She says. He wiped it away and insisted

841
00:52:07.760 --> 00:52:11.000
on wanting to keep going. So my boy did go

842
00:52:11.320 --> 00:52:12.719
grab a package of ritz.

843
00:52:15.559 --> 00:52:17.880
I don't know whether to say he's a better man

844
00:52:17.920 --> 00:52:24.079
than me or obviously he has more intestinal fortitude, because

845
00:52:24.119 --> 00:52:27.840
I at that point I would have to go, all right, babe,

846
00:52:29.760 --> 00:52:32.719
don't have to resume this at another time. You go

847
00:52:32.719 --> 00:52:33.360
get in a shower.

848
00:52:34.519 --> 00:52:39.079
Huh. I think it's time that I need some space,

849
00:52:40.719 --> 00:52:42.920
and I think it's time I see some other vaginas.

850
00:52:44.519 --> 00:52:46.599
This is where and this is going to be crude

851
00:52:46.679 --> 00:52:51.159
to some people, but the men are talking. Now, this

852
00:52:51.360 --> 00:52:55.400
is where you need to take the produce test seriously.

853
00:52:55.840 --> 00:52:58.280
Right when you're at the grocery store and you're squeezing

854
00:52:58.320 --> 00:53:00.960
an avocado to see if it's ready, or your school

855
00:53:01.039 --> 00:53:03.639
you're knocking on a melon to see if it's right.

856
00:53:04.039 --> 00:53:08.880
You're doing all these things. If if you get down

857
00:53:08.960 --> 00:53:13.559
there on your lady and it's growing something that is

858
00:53:13.599 --> 00:53:15.960
not supposed to be there, don't eat it.

859
00:53:19.079 --> 00:53:21.599
Yeah. If it looks like you know, something you saw

860
00:53:21.599 --> 00:53:23.880
on a Tom and Jerry cartoon, walk away.

861
00:53:28.239 --> 00:53:30.360
If this looks like something a chef might put on

862
00:53:30.400 --> 00:53:37.960
top of an amuse boosh, get out of there. Oh

863
00:53:38.320 --> 00:53:40.599
When if you open up a bag of bread and

864
00:53:40.639 --> 00:53:43.280
it's moldy, you don't eat it, do you.

865
00:53:45.199 --> 00:53:46.639
Yeah.

866
00:53:46.719 --> 00:53:49.039
Also, if you get down there on your lady and

867
00:53:49.079 --> 00:53:51.840
it smells like moldy bread, don't eat it.

868
00:53:52.199 --> 00:53:54.920
Yeah. Or if it looks like it smells like moldy

869
00:53:55.000 --> 00:54:08.000
cheese it's not a salad.

870
00:54:02.920 --> 00:54:16.320
Treat it like taco bell lettuce, don't eat it. Oh

871
00:54:16.360 --> 00:54:20.840
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872
00:54:20.840 --> 00:54:23.119
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877
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881
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882
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cheese free, no feta. Ooh four