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It is time to leave your worries outside and laugh
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with us inside the treehouse. I'm Daniel Malley, along with
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Trey Trenholm and Raj Sharma. Today is Wednesday, June eleventh,
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two thy twenty five. Gen Z is at it again. Everyone,
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brace yourselves. College students are using no contact orders to
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block each other in real life. The notice of no
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contact order landed in May's inbox February fifteenth, twenty twenty two.
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It was stern and lawyerly and contained a bulleted list
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of prohibited behaviors between May, then a two Lane freshman,
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and her former roommate. No approaching each other at any time,
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no communicating through third parties, no social media interactions whatsoever.
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The directive, which came from two Lane's Division of Student Affairs,
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was based on the right of every two Lane community
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member to avoid contact with another community member if such
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contact may be harmful or detrimental. Though the measure was
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reportedly nondisciplinary, it ended on an ominous note a violation
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of disorder could result in an immediate interim suspension and
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against conduct charges to you. Okay, May thought a no
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contact order. The campus version of a restraining order was
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for cases of sexual misconduct. Could she be in serious trouble?
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Mat requested the order? Had their disagreement?
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Are they still roommates? Because that I think everybody violates
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that order then form a roommate.
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Okay, but again it's this is they don't know what
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to do with conflict in real life. Yeah, they it
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absolutely it. It makes them just fall apart because oh no, no,
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my my ex or daughter when she went to a
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charter school here, you couldn't.
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You couldn't. There was no bullying, there was no conflict whatever.
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Everything's recorded and if somebody said something disparaging to another student,
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they were taken into another room h and a student
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mediator and a teacher were in the room and they
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had to talk it out before they could go back
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to wherever they were going. And they would have to
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resolve like why did you say that, what's going on
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at home? Why would you say? Why would you isolate
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this person? Like? And that that was how they kind
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of that was their conflict resolution. They didn't do it themselves.
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There were people that intervened, and so now you're off
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in college and there's nobody there and you have to
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do it Yourself's and they can't. That's exactly what you're saying.
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They can't. They can't do it because there's nobody there
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to help. I would like a no contact order with
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all of gen Z. Where do I file? Because I
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would like to not have any contact with any of them?
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Ever, I was hoping this no contact order was something
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you could put in your door dash. So not only
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do I get a cheeseburger, but also they tell my roommate,
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I don't want to talk to you anymore.
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You might be onto something. He used to be called
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a process server, but now we'll just give it an
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app and a fun name. We'll just have to find
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a really cool name for it, and all the gen
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Z kids will love it. And yeah, you can just
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show up and hand somebody papers. The race is why.
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Like so.
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Some of the bigger restaurants company now they have an
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HR department, which, if you've ever worked in a restaurant,
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the concept of an HR department is mind boggling because
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especially I mean just the kitchen staff alone, that that
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that is not a HR friendly PC place to be. Yes,
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and they literally if if this happened to a friend
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of mine and she is jen, she's on the kind
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of the borderline between gen X and millennial. But you
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can't even you know, you have to have someone with
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you to go, hey, you've been late five days in
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a row. We need you to correct that problem because
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if not, then you're gonna they're gonna go to HR
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and go, well they were mean to me.
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Yeah, hostal work environment, uh huh.
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And then when the gen Z people are becoming managers,
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they're completely ineffective because then they have to go and
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have these conversations and they don't. They don't know what
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to do. They've never had real where we used to
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just get in a fight. They don't have that. If
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it's if if they're face to face, they don't know
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what to do.
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Yeah, and that's what I was. I think it was
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Google that did the story on this, where like gen
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Z they're the worst employees because they don't they don't
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know what authority is. So like they look at their bosses,
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their buddy. I think I've talked about this before. It's like, hey,
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where are those you know we had a deadline. Where
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are those reports that I needed on Friday?
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Oh?
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You know, I didn't get to them because they don't Hey,
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it's my buddy, he's gonna be cool with it, like
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I was busy. And then when they get fired. The
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suicide rate that is going up for gen Z employees
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that when they get fired kill themselves because it's such
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a direct like they think that that attack was directly
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on them and not their behavior at work. It's them
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as a person, not like you didn't turn into reports,
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you're a terrible person, and they can't deal with that.
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They there was a study where they don't the concept
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of deadlines and like promptness. Being on time they think
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is a very fluid thing. They have no concept of
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hard deadlines.
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You cannot equate time with your gender identity at the
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same time, like one of these things needs to be concrete.
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Pick one. You can't be both. Look, you could be
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a dude but beyond time. You can say you're a girl,
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but beyond time, or you can never be on time
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and then you can be whatever you feel like that day.
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On the other side, Yeah, I'd like my pronouns to
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be I'm late, Like that's what it would be like,
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not on time, Like that's what my pronoun should be Like,
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that'd be fantastic. Jesus.
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Yeah, a no contact order through the school to then
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be delivered to the roommate.
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That is yeah wow. And I feel bad for the
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school because I mean they're relying on tuitions, they're relying
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on you know, enrollment, so they have to appeal and
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it's I'm sure it sucks for them, but they have
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to appease that rule where it's like, Okay, well they're
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gonna leave that, we'll lose that that revenue because I mean,
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at the end of the day, a college is still
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a business and they have to have people spending money.
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First off, tu Lane is a private school, and you know,
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if they fought, they are fostering that environment and it's
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gonna come back and bite them in the ass. They
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should be like that, that's not I mean, this is
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the whole problem of appeasement. This we got to this
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place in society because of appeasement. Instead of saying no, no,
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you you can't have it both ways. You have to
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do you pick one. You can't change, you can't you
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there there are some things you just you can't do.
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The word no, the word no, and you go, hey, no,
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we're not getting in the middle of y'all squabble, you know,
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because what happened, what happens when they you know, Tu
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Lanes right outside of New Orleans. I mean, so if
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they're on Bourbon Street at the same time, did someone
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violate the order? I mean, it's yeah, it's insane.
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I'm I'm fine if they want to do some new
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inventive ways for conflict resolution, because evidence suggests that just
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beating the crap out of the kids like we were
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didn't exactly have the result they were hoping. Now they've
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kind of overcorrected. But if you want to have the
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kids sit down and hammer it out verbally and emotionally
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while being directed by an adult expert, fine, But also
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while you're doing that, teach them how to do it
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for themselves as well as opposed to constantly relying on
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an adult in the room, because one of these days
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they're technically going to be adults like these college kids,
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and they're gonna have to live life on their own.
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See try. I think you're missing out on an opportunity here,
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and I need you to go to the guy that
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owns three coin and go to him in a new
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division for bare knuckle boxing. Like you have your heavyweights,
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your welter weights, your bantam weights, now you can have
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the no content students and how they resolve their dispute
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is get in the ring, fight it out.
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That's interesting.
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I like it. You know from two lane she has
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a you know, a zero to two record or whatever
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it is. She uh has a dispute with the challenger
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and then fight.
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Or there's just a job opportunity here for Trade to
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be gen Z's enforcer. He can just be for higher
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and he'll just handle your conflict resolution for you because
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Trade loves yelling at kids.
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Daniel Malley along with Trey Trenholm and Raj Sharma. Today
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is Wednesday, June eleventh, twenty twenty five. We don't typically
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focus on travel news or airline news, but I'm actually
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kind of reconsidering it because there's been some really dumb
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stuff happening in the skies lately and on the ground,
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and I'm going to share those with you right now.
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We mentioned earlier how gen z is doing no contact
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orders at colleges, so they can, you know, separate from
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their roommate through paperwork through the school. I thought it
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was something that they could just do with the door
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Dash delivery. That's not right. But door Dash and Chicago's
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O'Hair Airport kind of collided the other day. We'll not collided,
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but they're in the same space at the same time.
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They're not supposed to. A lost door Dash driver ended
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up on the tarmac at Chicago's o Hair Airport. And
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when I mean i'm the tarmac, I don't mean like
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just kind of wandering around on the fringes like the
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bus and speed No, I mean like pulling up in
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the lanes next to delta jets being loaded for flight.
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Just like did anybody order a taco?
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I would love at that moment somebody's like, yep, right here,
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thank you so much. Bonus, these guys are great. We
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want to talk about.
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I mean, hell, in some places you can't get the
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door Dash drivers show up. So I mean at least
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this person's going all out, going right through the airport
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trying to try and deliver that bag of food.
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I'm not even sure which where to go. I mean,
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obviously the airport. How have we gotten that lax of
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security that you know, anyone can just drive on the tarmac.
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And then, on the other hand, if you're the door
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dash driver, don't you think a runway is a bad
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place to be.
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Yeah, there's a whole lot of stupid going on in
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this story.
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I just like he pulls up to the gate, like
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the security guards. There's like, I have a delivery, and
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that guy goes, yeah, Terminal three.
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All that stupidity aside, because Tray, You're right, it's a
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massive security concern that a door dash driver was able
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to just wander onto the freaking tarmac at one of
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the busiest airports in the world. It's also stunningly stupid
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how the driver didn't stop to think that, you know,
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this doesn't seem right. This is not a normal door
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dash delivery. All that being said, I've been on the
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raw end of Google Maps on bake cation. A handful
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of years ago. My wife and I were on the
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US Virgin Island Saint Croix, and we were going we
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were done on Saint Croix. We were going back to
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the airport and trying to bring our car hang out.
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I guess.
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Bless you, Bless you again, bless you.
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Anyway, So we're trying to return our rental car to
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the to the avas at the Saint Croix Airport, and
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we're using the Google Maps on our phones to give