March 10, 2025

Daisy VS The Virgin | Monday March 10, 2025

Daisy VS The Virgin | Monday March 10, 2025

We start off with the mind boggling topic of people who eat styrofoam peanuts.  Then, we have Lauren Harkins @itslaurenciaga join us.  She is the woman who has been in the news because she is a 34 year old virgin.  We talked to her about her choices...

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We start off with the mind boggling topic of people who eat styrofoam peanuts. Then, we have Lauren Harkins @itslaurenciaga join us. She is the woman who has been in the news because she is a 34 year old virgin. We talked to her about her choices and what she's looking for, and then put her will to the test with the OG panty dropper, Daisy. During our Plus episode, Raj announced some health issues he's having and we talked about that a little and Dan and Trey showed how compassionate they are. Adopt a Raj. But first, Birthdays!

LINKS:

Packing peanuts aren't food but people are eating them — experts are worried

Lauren Harkins (@itslaurenciaga) • Instagram photos and videos

I'm a 34-year-old virgin — this is the best thing about abstaining from sex

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It is time believe your warriors outside and laugh with

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us inside the Treehouse. I'm Dan O'Malley along with Trey

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Trenholm and Raj Sharma. Today is Monday, March tenth, two

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thy twenty five. Real quick, I want to promote something

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House Plus episode where Raj makes a huge medical announcement.

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We'll refer to it over the next couple of days,

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but if you really want the full story, suggest you'd

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get in the tree House Plus. He's not making our

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Treehouse Memorial wall anytime soon. It's very esteemed by the way,

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lots of big names up there, but we'll all be

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on that wall someday. Instead, we're going to start with

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something that while Raj may have this disease thing going on,

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at least at the end of the day, at least

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at the end of the day, Raj doesn't have the

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worst disease of all. And that is utter stupidity. I

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say that because a lot of other people on this

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planet have utter stupidity, and there doesn't seem to be

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any cure other than death. Luckily, a lot of these

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people unwinningly take that cure, like these people. People are

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eating packing peanuts, not by accident but on purpose. I

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don't know how your twenty twenty five being gold card

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is shaping up, gentlemen, But I did not have that

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on my But here we are.

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This is it Florida.

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No, this is a this isn't everywhere problem.

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Oh, it's never a problem. Okay.

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Yeah. There is a cosmetics company called Lush, and in

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twenty seventeen, Lush announced that it's peanuts. We're going to

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be one hundred percent biodegradable and edible, edible because we're

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using a vegetable starch based alternative. And when you tell

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somebody technically you could eat these, some of the people

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suffering from utters stupidity will in fact eat them. And

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that's what's happening now. Do in large parts of TikTok

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and other social media platforms where one of the influencers

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get their boxes of Lush products immediately give their insides

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a makeover by eating the packing peanuts because they're biodegradable. Yeah,

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to the uh disappointment of many experts. Yeah, unfortunately, it's

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not a new thing, but it is.

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It was twenty seventeen is when they made the announcement,

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and people are still eating them today.

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Yeah, people are eating biodegradable packing peanuts under the assumption

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they are edible, much to experts dismay. On TikTok, online

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shoppers and influencers claimed that the biodegradable packing peanuts make

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for the perfect bedtime smack, arguing that the phone pieces

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are completely edible because they dissolve in their mouths. Off

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the top of my head, I can't immediately think of

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something else that dissolves in your mouth that's edible. But

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I'm sure there's lots of things out there that will

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dissolve in your mouth and it's not edible.

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I was gonna say white trash, cotton candy. Uh, I

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mean maybe, maybe not, I don't know.

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Yeah. One beauty lover on TikTok said, did anyone know

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that lush packing peanuts are edible? And then she pops

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one in her mouth. The Personal Care brand packsage shipping

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boxes with eco float chips it's an alternative to typical

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foam peanuts that are instead made with a potato starch

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base to make them dissolve in water and soil. However,

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one person pointed out biodegradible doesn't mean edible, and someone

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else pointing out one of my favorite phrases, just because

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you can.

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Doesn't mean you should. Uh hum.

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And then one of my favorite comments on one video

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was someone saying, girl, those packing peanuts have probably been

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on the ground and touched by I don't know how

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many people. Because if you're going to eat a packing peanut,

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a dirt on it is what should be of main concern.

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Yeah, if you're and if you're in that middle state,

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that's what you're worried about Burns, Kansas.

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That's hey, honey, before you eat that packing put peanut,

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Before you eat the packing peanut, at least just blow

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it off a little bit first. Or if when you

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open your your box of goodies and the biodegradable packing

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peanuts fall out five second rule applies, yeah, get on it.

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I mean, really, aren't they just white fluffy Bieber beaver nuggets.

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Or or or Bieber nuggets? Either one both work.

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I guess if I guess if you get packing peanuts

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in your or if you're justin Bieber and you get

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beaver nuggets from BUCkies, then yeah, I think you should

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call them beeber nuggets.

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And I think, uh, if you uh blow on your

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fluffy box as you were saying, uh.

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I don't think I called it a fluffy box, but

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oh I thought you did. I'm sorry.

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So many biodegradable packing peanuts use corn starch, potato starch,

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vegetable oil, wheat starch, and other plant based materials. Luscious

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peanuts in particular made from potato starch, and one expert

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explains that these ingredients are heated to a high level

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in order to create the packing material. When it's heated,

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it goes undergo something chemical called the Myard reaction, which

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forms a krylamide, a known carcinogen.

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Okay, good, that's what you want.

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Yeah, so let's let let's not give cancer an advantage,

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don't give it a leg up by eating cancer causing materials.

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Just let it get you naturally. I just I really

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don't know what to do with people anymore. I mean,

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on one hand, like the experts, I feel like if

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I witnessed someone eating packing peanuts. I feel like I

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should tell them drop it and don't eat that.

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Would you?

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On the flip side, I kinda feel like just gotta

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let people do what they're gonna do. To a certain degree. Yeah,

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sometimes you have to learn your own lessons.

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This is how we get rid of people.

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Dan, I'm Allen, along.

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With Trey Trenholm and Raj Sharma with you inside the

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Treehouse today Monday March tenth, two thousand twenty five. We

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have something very special in store for today because last

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year we told you about a woman named Lauren Harkins

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who made headlines. And she didn't make headlines the way

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a lot of people do murdering somebody. And she didn't

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make headlines for some crazy stunt to promote an adult website.

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No.

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No, Lauren Harkins story made global news because she's a

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thirty four year old virgin. So let's welcome Lauren into

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the treehouse. Now, Lauren, welcome inside the treehouse.

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Here, pleads up.

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Guys, thanks for having me, thanks for taking the time.

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We appreciate it. I promise we will be nice because

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I will admit I've done a fair amount of social

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media stalking on you. But to be fair, you did

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it first because Trey and Roger. I'm not sure if

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you realize this, because the segment that we did about

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Dateless and Portland about Lauren last year, I had slapped

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it up on YouTube and Lauren commented on it, and

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that's how now she's in trouble and she's in the treehouse.

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But so we have lots of questions, as I'm sure

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many people do anytime they are confronted by a thirty

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four year old virgin. My first question is why.

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Why?

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Well?

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I mean, I feel like it's one of those things

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that the more that I talk about it, I feel

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like the easier it is, like articulate. So what it

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really just comes down to is I've just never met

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anyone that I personally have felt is right for me.

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I'm really into being intentional with you know, my time

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and who I share my time with. And I think

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that I just I've never made dating a priority. I mean,

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it was never a priority for me in my twenties.

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It's really only now, like in my thirties, that I'm

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even interested or open to meeting someone. But it's still

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not something that I'm actively pursuing. So why, I mean,

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it's really just like a feeling thing like I just

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haven't met anyone that I'm like it does it for me?

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And again, like in my twenties, I was very close

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off to meeting anyone, just had like other things going

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on and just you know, I have a great life.

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I have a very full life, and just was never

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a priority.

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So why it's really just just haven't met someone that

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you know?

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Does it for me?

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What was going on in your twenties that you.

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Twenties was just really like I think a lot of

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people school. Yeah, it's just a very like confusing, overwhelming time.

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I was trying to figure out, you know, what I'm

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doing career wise, and.

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Yeah, just and you know, I feel like you don't

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really I didn't really fully know myself in my twenties.

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I think a lot of people that knew me, you

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know then would think that I did, But I was

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just you know, just like trying to figure out like

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what I want and just like you know, figuring out myself,

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my life and what I'm doing.

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So I think that's smart because the majority of us

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right now, and by majority, I mean everyone except for you, Lauren, Me,

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Craigon Rage, we all spent our twenties acting out whereas

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and I think that's what most people do. And I

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think you were right to figure out and figure out

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only we tried multitasking, and we have we have interesting

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stories to tell, no doubt. But I am curious though.

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You are a thirty four year old virgin. When we

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saw the story last year, I think the headline was

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thirty three year old virgins? So how did the story

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first come about? How did how did you become a

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global sensation.

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Like I did?

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Did the Daily Mail just somehow find out and call you?

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What's how did that happen?

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So someone a journalist in the UK found my social

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media and reached out that way. So yeah, I kind

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of started posting. I'd always kind of like danced around

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like doing you know stuff, social media stuff, but I

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kind of started posting about being a virgin in my

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thirties last last summer actually, and kind of just popped

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off from there and then yeah, a couple of journalists

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reached out, and that's how that first round of publicity

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came about.

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Are you a virgin influencer or just.

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Are you trying to are you trying to spread the

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virginity thing or is it just telling your story?

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I don't know, I mean not necessary. I'm not I'm

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not trying to convince people to you know, live the lifestyle.

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I don't think that's very like realistic. And that's also

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not something that I really like, I feel like I

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need to put because it's obviously like a bit unusual.

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But no, I think I'm more so kind of leaning

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toward you know, I want to inspire people to make

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good choices and you know, inspire people toward high standards

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living and just you know, being intentional and protecting your peace.

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And yeah, just I think more like general lifestyle stuff

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I'm also interested in. But obviously the things that do

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the best are when I'm talking about, you know, being

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a version of my thirties. That's kind of has that

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shock value aspect to it.

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So yeah, I think it's pretty funny that you mentioned

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protecting your piece, because we hear a lot about that

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in here. Well the hang on because we hear about

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that a lot from Trey, because Trey is fifty and

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is single and is all about protecting his piece now

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because he's gone through the trials and tribulations that come

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along with relationships and sex and well alcohol too, but

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still so covering alcoholic. What I'm getting at, in a

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very long winded way, Lauren, is that you sound like

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a fifty year old man trying to protect his piece.

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You know what.

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I take that as a call flim it.

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And I mean it that way.

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Thank you, Thank you, Laura.

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Are you does it feel relatable between the two of

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you now?

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Yeah?

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Are you specifically waiting for marriage or are you just

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waiting for the right person.

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I'm waiting for the right person because honestly, for me,

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I think a lot of people assume I'm waiting for marriage,

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but I'm actually not a very traditional person. So I

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actually don't want to get married. I don't want to

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have kids. I kind of I'm not really looking for something.

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I think I just fell in love with you.

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Where have you been?

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I'm looking for you?

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Like Indian guys.

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I like Indian food, so I can you.

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Oh no, honestly, like I I think just.

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I don't know.

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I yeah, I just feel like it's just been like

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a a journey.

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But yeah, but if the right guy comes along, you're

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that sounded terrible, But uh, if the right guy swings

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by your way, you'd be.

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You'd be okay, you'd be like, Okay, we can do this.

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Yeah, I do feel that way.

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I also think, like, so, I am kind of looking

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for something that's non traditional in the sense of like

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I don't want to live with someone full time. I

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don't really want to do the whole like domestic thing.

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I really want to be in my own space and

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kind of even like something long distance would be, you know,

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all India, India.

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So I have a genuine interest in hearing about you

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and your life, Lord, and all of a sudden, this

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is this is really looking like some sort of screwed

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up matchmaking content you try.

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This is the worst version of tender ever.

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I love it.

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I love it.

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Okay, So, but you are open for that, Like you

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don't want a traditional thing, you want to Yeah, I

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am your own You want to live your own life,

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And do you okay.

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One hundred percent.

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Yeah, I think honestly like kind of what I've seen too,

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and like one of the benefits of like living this

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way is I get to kind of I pay more attention,

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I think, to like what other people are doing that

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I'm not interested in and kind of like like yeah,

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and I just feel like, I don't know, I kind

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of do feel like maybe this is just for me,

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but because I am so like like independent, I don't

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mean independent like and an independent woman, like not in

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that way, not in like the super woke away, but

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just like in uh, you know, I am very like

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emotionally independent, Like I like my space, I love I

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love like doing my own things. So I think more

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relationships could benefit from more separation. And you know, just

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I'm not saying like long dist necessarily, but you know,

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I don't know, I think like.

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It ala to start different rooms.

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I don't know.

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I think it's the future personally, but that's just me.

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I don't know.

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Are you open to moving out of the Northeast and

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somewhere and more a warmer climate.

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Potentially?

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I mean I actually did just buy a home here

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in Maine, so just about my first house, so I

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kind of like having my hub here in Maine, you know,

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like all my people are here and like my whole

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support system and network and everything. But yeah, I mean

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I I do travel a lot. I think, like I'm

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not saying I would be here forever, but it's just

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kind of like my my little safety safety nest, and

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I love Mania.

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It's like where I grew up.

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So potentially, yeah, but I think also the the ideal

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would be someone to find someone who's like not living

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near me and then like kind of like you know,

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we meet each other and maybe steps.

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Baby steps exactly.

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Baby steps makes sense. We have a lot more questions

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for you, Lauren, if you would be so kind. Uh,

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you've already been put through so much. I'm going to

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ask you if we can put you through just a

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little bit more. We have a bunch a bunch more

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questions for Lauren right here inside the Treehouse data.

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is our special guest today, thirty four year old virgin

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Lauren Harkins. Yeah, she's back, starting to question her judgment

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more and more now. So the news breaks last year

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you're a virgin. You've become this global news trend. So

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I think it's important that I say congratulations on being

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the first viral virgin.

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Oh thanks, So I've.

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Already asked you why. So now I'm curious what are

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some of the positives to being a virgin, especially a

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virgin in your thirties.

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Well, I think it's a lot of like discernment that

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comes from, you know, having never been with anyone. I

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think it's really allowed me to pinpoint like what I

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would want, what I wouldn't want.

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And also, you know the emotional independence.

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Piece as well. I feel like I'm very I'm a

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very stable person and I like being able to you know,

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not be codependent and having to rely on someone you

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know emotionally and in that way. So that's been nice.

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And to be honest with these some of the things

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that you're saying sound like things that men say, mm hmmm,

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valuing our independence, protecting our peace. So have you gotten

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that from other people as well? Someone saying I mean

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you feel like a dude.

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I don't know if I've so much gotten it from

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other people, but I do kind of feel that way

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in a sense. I mean, I know, I like present

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very feminine, but I do feel kind of like my

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personality in the way that I kind of like feel

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inside is like more masculine in a lot of ways.

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So yeah, I do kind of understand like why someone

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would say that, for sure.

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Do you date a lot?

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No, I've never dated anyone. So that's kind of like

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the thing too, is that for me? Like it's just

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so all or nothing, Like I don't want to. I

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don't feel the need to date unless I see something

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long term, unless like someone really just like lights a

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spark you know within me.

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I just don't. That just sounds honestly kind of awful.

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I don't know, you know, like.

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I'm so or dating somebody.

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Dating dating just to date, like that just sounds really good.

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I don't know, it just doesn't sound enjoyable in any

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you know, just to.

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Go on a date, just to go out for like

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dinner or with somebody.

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Well, I mean.

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Why because I mean it's like yeah, but like I

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don't know, I don't I feel like I wouldn't even

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want that because then there's like an expectation, like you know, so.

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Well, how do.

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If you don't date per se, Like how how do

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you get to know somebody where you would even get

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to the point where you would agree to go on

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a date?

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That's a good yeah? Okay, Yeah, well I.

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Think it's kind of like an intuition thing.

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I mean I kind of get this question a lot,

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and I think it's like I'm pretty intuitive when.

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It comes to people and energy and energy.

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But I know that's like a thing, but I really

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do feel like it's I mean, it's just always been

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very obvious to me, like who who I like, who

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I don't like, who I want to spend my time with,

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who I gravitate toward. So I don't know, I don't

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personally feel like I need to get to know someone

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to know if I want to date that I'm pretty

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like clear off the bat. And I don't think it's

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like that for all people, and like that's fine. I

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think for some people it's more like a slow burn,

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But for me, I would need that kind of like

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intensity or you know, that feeling off the bat.

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It's just something that.

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I just for the record, so far, it's zero.

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Yeah, I mean yes, Like, have I been attracted to

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people in the past, very few and far between. I

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think that's like a part of it too, is that like, oh,

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there's like a lot of speculation if I'm asexual or

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you know, I think you guys even mentioned that like

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last time, and I used to say that I was

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asexual honestly, but it's I, I honestly don't really gravitate

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toward that label and that kind of like that camp

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of things. And I don't mean this in like an

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offensive way toward anyone, but I don't. It's it's kind

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of like one of those like new age, like woke

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kind of terms that I'm just not really like, I

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just don't want to be affiliated with that kind of

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sure thing. Could is it like a spectrum, like could

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I be on that spectrum. Yeah, possibly, But I also

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think a lot of asexual people are sex verse. And

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it's not that I'm it's not that I wouldn't want

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it's the desire is there, but it's there's nowhere it

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for it to go.

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If that makes sense.

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Oh okay, yeah, but you have you have common and

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across people that you have been attracted to.

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I mean, honestly, maybe like one or two like over

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like my life. I mean, I'm I I feel like

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it's like in high school, like I maybe had a

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couple of crushes they kind of obviously fizzled out. But yeah, no,

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I'm honestly, like I'm I'm kind of drawn to like

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people who and I know you guys kind of talked

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about this too last time, but I'm kind of drawn

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to people who are outside like my sphere of like

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what I'm doing in my everyday life. I kind of

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would want someone who's already living the life and the

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lifestyle that I see myself living, so I can just

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kind of like slip into that versus someone who's.

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Just like doing the same ship as me, like you know,

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running the same circles. That's very boring for me, Like

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I don't. I don't want I don't want that. I

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don't want to I don't want a local guy. I

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just that's just not it's just not what I want.

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You want a guy from Maine, I don't.

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I love Maine, I love the state that I come from.

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But I it's just.

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I just want to be, like, you know, with someone

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who's who's already more established than I am.

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Like I love Hyperogrammy, it's great. I don't know.

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I just I'd rather be with someone who's already more

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set up in the world and.

475
00:27:05.039 --> 00:27:07.440
More set up, like do it living the life that

476
00:27:07.480 --> 00:27:10.000
you want to live? What what does that entail?

477
00:27:10.480 --> 00:27:13.480
Like someone more in the public eye, someone you know,

478
00:27:13.559 --> 00:27:15.680
wealth and status are important to me. I get a

479
00:27:15.680 --> 00:27:17.839
lot of like heat for saying that I've you know,

480
00:27:17.960 --> 00:27:20.200
but it's always just something I've been very honest about

481
00:27:21.240 --> 00:27:21.720
because it is.

482
00:27:21.759 --> 00:27:23.440
I mean, that's important. That's like what I want out

483
00:27:23.440 --> 00:27:25.400
of life. So why wouldn't I want someone who's already

484
00:27:26.079 --> 00:27:26.880
like living that life?

485
00:27:26.960 --> 00:27:28.799
You know, you should come to Dwnlas. I'll take it

486
00:27:28.839 --> 00:27:29.440
to Tower Club.

487
00:27:29.920 --> 00:27:33.519
Oh okay, I love Texas. I do love Texas.

488
00:27:34.440 --> 00:27:34.599
Well.

489
00:27:34.640 --> 00:27:36.119
If you want, if you want a couple of guys

490
00:27:36.160 --> 00:27:39.839
that are established and well known. Uh and also celibate,

491
00:27:39.880 --> 00:27:40.839
that is Trey and Russ.

492
00:27:45.039 --> 00:27:47.119
I am not on purpose celibate.

493
00:27:51.240 --> 00:27:52.039
Hang on one second.

494
00:27:52.559 --> 00:27:55.039
Oh no, this is.

495
00:27:55.759 --> 00:27:58.319
The one thing I was afraid of, Lauren.

496
00:27:59.759 --> 00:28:03.160
I'm about to lose you. I'm about to lose you

497
00:28:03.240 --> 00:28:07.160
to I thought I had a shot. I thought I

498
00:28:07.200 --> 00:28:11.680
had a shot. Grew up, yep, I threw up power club.

499
00:28:14.279 --> 00:28:16.039
You know, as much as I didn't want this to

500
00:28:16.079 --> 00:28:21.200
be some sort of gross matchmaking attempt, or, Trey's gonna

501
00:28:21.240 --> 00:28:21.759
make it real.

502
00:28:23.880 --> 00:28:24.440
I'm ready.

503
00:28:25.480 --> 00:28:28.519
Boy, do you like cute dogs?

504
00:28:28.720 --> 00:28:31.799
Oh my goodness, yes, that's it.

505
00:28:32.000 --> 00:28:35.720
I lost forever cutie.

506
00:28:35.799 --> 00:28:40.240
Oh my god. Wait that doesn't and and the perspective

507
00:28:40.240 --> 00:28:41.640
on that is not is not very good.

508
00:28:41.720 --> 00:28:43.799
Trey, hold her back farther next to your head, so

509
00:28:44.039 --> 00:28:49.599
so Lauren can see how tiny your three pound working.

510
00:28:49.400 --> 00:28:49.960
Out the window.

511
00:28:50.039 --> 00:28:56.079
I can I can pull a migrant right now, I

512
00:28:56.079 --> 00:28:58.599
can hold I can hold a five ft five Mexican

513
00:28:58.640 --> 00:28:59.200
guy right now.

514
00:28:59.319 --> 00:29:02.960
Oh god, what a riot? Oh my god, your baby

515
00:29:03.039 --> 00:29:04.640
is so cute. Wait is it a girl or boy?

516
00:29:04.680 --> 00:29:05.039
What's her name?

517
00:29:05.079 --> 00:29:05.440
That's a girl.

518
00:29:05.440 --> 00:29:08.759
Her name is Daisy, Daisy, Oh I love her. She's

519
00:29:08.759 --> 00:29:15.160
so cute. That's it. I lived happily ever after.

520
00:29:16.319 --> 00:29:18.119
So I need to pull up my will.

521
00:29:18.200 --> 00:29:24.720
I will miss you, Lauren. You had no idea what

522
00:29:24.759 --> 00:29:25.599
we could have been.

523
00:29:31.480 --> 00:29:36.400
If that will be waiting for you at the airport.

524
00:29:36.519 --> 00:29:39.319
Yeah, I love me too.

525
00:29:42.200 --> 00:29:44.000
Yeah, but you don't want to know which one's wearing

526
00:29:44.000 --> 00:29:45.880
the lu You don't.

527
00:29:45.720 --> 00:29:52.240
Want to see the other one's tongue. Stay virgin. Oh man,

528
00:29:57.720 --> 00:29:58.720
you were listening to.

529
00:29:58.680 --> 00:29:59.480
The tree House.

530
00:30:00.119 --> 00:30:12.519
Visit us online at Treehouse on air dot com.

531
00:30:12.720 --> 00:30:14.240
You're in the Treehouse.

532
00:30:15.039 --> 00:30:20.519
Visit us online at Treehouse on air dot com.

533
00:30:20.559 --> 00:30:25.079
Oh what a day for all things Treehouse. Go to

534
00:30:25.119 --> 00:30:28.079
our website Treehouse on Air dot com. That's Treehouse on

535
00:30:28.160 --> 00:30:31.759
Air dot com. There you can get past shows, links,

536
00:30:31.799 --> 00:30:36.799
contact infull, leave us a message through the Treehouse talkback

537
00:30:36.839 --> 00:30:39.240
when you use that microphone in the lower right hand corner.

538
00:30:39.279 --> 00:30:45.000
All there on our website Treehouse on Air dot com,

539
00:30:45.240 --> 00:30:51.599
Treehouse on Air dot com. Dan Olmley, Trey Trentholm Rosharma

540
00:30:51.680 --> 00:30:58.519
inside the Treehouse. Today Monday, March ten, twenty five. So

541
00:30:58.839 --> 00:31:03.839
there was some big news that was announced earlier, uh today.

542
00:31:04.480 --> 00:31:07.440
And we we we mentioned.

543
00:31:07.039 --> 00:31:10.200
It on Patreon dot com slash Treehouse on air because

544
00:31:10.279 --> 00:31:12.240
Raj told us that he's a he's got a bit

545
00:31:12.240 --> 00:31:19.039
of a thing going on. And uh, the the motor

546
00:31:19.119 --> 00:31:22.480
neuron disease that you might have is serious, but as

547
00:31:22.559 --> 00:31:24.640
you said, it's not life threatening. It's not like you

548
00:31:24.680 --> 00:31:26.680
have a terminal illness.

549
00:31:27.960 --> 00:31:32.920
I don't believe. So we will find out coming up

550
00:31:33.039 --> 00:31:33.440
very soon.

551
00:31:36.640 --> 00:31:41.519
But there has been some discussion, and by some, I

552
00:31:41.519 --> 00:31:44.079
mean like two or three sentences about well, I mean,

553
00:31:44.759 --> 00:31:50.160
should we should we do something to help Raj because

554
00:31:50.200 --> 00:31:52.920
you're you're you're gonna be going through some stuff. I mean,

555
00:31:53.000 --> 00:31:56.160
you're you're gonna get some type of an official diagnosis

556
00:31:57.440 --> 00:32:00.680
and then a treatment and and all these things. Yes,

557
00:32:01.000 --> 00:32:04.640
and we want you to know that we are here

558
00:32:04.680 --> 00:32:05.000
for you.

559
00:32:06.079 --> 00:32:08.759
Oh you're my brothers. Come on now. If we can

560
00:32:08.880 --> 00:32:11.559
just do something to put towards.

561
00:32:11.119 --> 00:32:16.680
The the foundation, that would be great.

562
00:32:17.720 --> 00:32:19.319
I don't mean, I don't mean anything.

563
00:32:19.400 --> 00:32:21.519
Are you talking about the Shaky Raj Foundation?

564
00:32:23.720 --> 00:32:26.319
The Listeners Foundation would be Oh, we can if we

565
00:32:26.319 --> 00:32:29.519
can put money towards that, if somebody wants to donate,

566
00:32:30.279 --> 00:32:31.440
I'm fine.

567
00:32:32.359 --> 00:32:33.319
I promise you.

568
00:32:33.240 --> 00:32:37.680
Guys, if I had an issue, you would be the

569
00:32:37.720 --> 00:32:39.200
first two people I would tell.

570
00:32:40.599 --> 00:32:42.960
Well, that's not the case, because earlier, when we talked

571
00:32:42.960 --> 00:32:44.920
about it, you said you told four other people before

572
00:32:44.960 --> 00:32:45.759
you told us.

573
00:32:46.079 --> 00:32:48.720
Well, I had to tell the ex wife. Why.

574
00:32:50.200 --> 00:32:56.079
Oh, because she's my family, she's my hurry much not No, No,

575
00:32:56.160 --> 00:32:59.640
she's my homie, she's she's my dude.

576
00:33:00.359 --> 00:33:01.640
Uh So I had to tell her.

577
00:33:01.880 --> 00:33:07.799
I had to tell my best friend from college, and uh,

578
00:33:08.559 --> 00:33:09.039
I had.

579
00:33:08.920 --> 00:33:13.559
To tell two other people. One is my nephew who

580
00:33:13.599 --> 00:33:16.160
lives here in Dallas, and one is my brother, who

581
00:33:16.559 --> 00:33:23.880
is the one who got me into seeing the neurologists

582
00:33:23.880 --> 00:33:26.839
this week. So after that, you.

583
00:33:28.359 --> 00:33:34.079
Told your doctor brother, your doctor brother's son, no, my

584
00:33:34.200 --> 00:33:39.079
best friend from college, yes, and your ex wife before

585
00:33:39.119 --> 00:33:40.720
you told me in trade.

586
00:33:42.319 --> 00:33:46.240
They would handle it better. You don't think we're handling

587
00:33:46.279 --> 00:33:49.680
this news? No, No, I mean Trey can't look at me.

588
00:33:51.799 --> 00:33:53.279
Sure you know what Dan's about to do.

589
00:33:54.079 --> 00:33:54.720
You don't know?

590
00:33:57.519 --> 00:33:58.680
Yeah, I do, because I did it.

591
00:34:00.880 --> 00:34:03.279
He knows because he sent it to me. All I'm

592
00:34:03.319 --> 00:34:06.440
saying is we want you to know that we are

593
00:34:06.519 --> 00:34:09.639
here for you in the event that you need any help.

594
00:34:10.239 --> 00:34:13.519
Oh No, this is not gonna be good.

595
00:34:13.400 --> 00:34:19.079
It isn't gonna be fine. Trick you asshole. Why I

596
00:34:19.079 --> 00:34:22.079
don't look. All I'm saying is.

597
00:34:23.719 --> 00:34:28.119
For just eighteen dollars a month, you too can adopt

598
00:34:28.199 --> 00:34:34.960
a sweet shaky brown man. Sure he may pee on

599
00:34:35.000 --> 00:34:36.039
the rug on occasion.

600
00:34:37.840 --> 00:34:38.239
He may.

601
00:34:42.280 --> 00:34:45.039
I haven't seen him drop any deuces in the living room,

602
00:34:45.039 --> 00:34:49.159
but anything's possible with a shaky Rise.

603
00:34:49.480 --> 00:34:53.039
What you guys did, Okay, I hope you guys get cancer.

604
00:34:54.519 --> 00:34:58.320
We're all gonna get cancer, Rise, but only one of

605
00:34:58.400 --> 00:35:05.119
us we'll have cancer and the shakes.

606
00:35:07.880 --> 00:35:11.880
Can I give you a chef's kiss? That was beautiful,

607
00:35:11.920 --> 00:35:16.199
my friend as a comic and as an Indian.

608
00:35:17.840 --> 00:35:19.920
Once a month you'll receive a pamphlet.

609
00:35:22.320 --> 00:35:24.119
Do I have to write somebody a note?

610
00:35:24.800 --> 00:35:27.199
And you'll get a letter from RAJ once a month

611
00:35:28.000 --> 00:35:30.719
thanking you for the new outfits.

612
00:35:30.760 --> 00:35:32.400
You're eighteen dollars bottom.

613
00:35:32.599 --> 00:35:35.360
It's really just scribble, it really is.

614
00:35:36.199 --> 00:35:39.079
It looks like one of those shaky pins from the nineties.

615
00:35:39.480 --> 00:35:42.000
You think I wear eighteen dollar clothes.

616
00:35:45.679 --> 00:35:48.400
Well, you just people are going to send you things.

617
00:35:49.719 --> 00:35:53.559
By all means, thank you so much for you to

618
00:35:54.199 --> 00:35:55.719
look at it this way. At least we're not going

619
00:35:55.800 --> 00:35:57.199
to stick you in a cage like.

620
00:36:00.360 --> 00:36:02.280
As long as we get donations.

621
00:36:02.199 --> 00:36:03.840
Right, Yeah, as long as we get the donations.

622
00:36:03.840 --> 00:36:05.960
If we don't get the donations, we're gonna have to

623
00:36:06.000 --> 00:36:11.719
create you while we leave, because we don't want you

624
00:36:11.800 --> 00:36:14.039
paying on the rug in the house.

625
00:36:22.679 --> 00:36:27.360
You're in the tree house. Listen us online.

626
00:36:27.559 --> 00:36:48.519
Treehouse on Air dot com. You're in the treehouse. Listen

627
00:36:48.599 --> 00:36:51.119
U is online a Treehouse on Air dot com.

628
00:36:53.760 --> 00:36:53.880
Uh.

629
00:36:53.920 --> 00:36:55.760
I mentioned it before. I want to mention it again.

630
00:36:55.840 --> 00:37:01.119
Treehouse Talkback is open. The Treehouse Talkback line is open

631
00:37:01.239 --> 00:37:03.760
on our website Treehouse on Air dot com. So if

632
00:37:03.760 --> 00:37:06.039
there's something you would like to tell us, go to

633
00:37:06.079 --> 00:37:09.079
Treehouse on Air dot com, click the microphone icon in

634
00:37:09.119 --> 00:37:11.280
the lower right hand corner and leave us a message

635
00:37:11.559 --> 00:37:14.119
and talk back to the Treehouse today at Treehouse on

636
00:37:14.400 --> 00:37:17.760
Air dot com. I've got a few messages that I'm

637
00:37:17.800 --> 00:37:21.119
going to be sharing with you guys tomorrow. So if

638
00:37:21.159 --> 00:37:23.519
you want to sneak one in under the radar, go

639
00:37:23.599 --> 00:37:26.639
leave us a message today Treehouse on Air dot com

640
00:37:26.679 --> 00:37:28.840
or Treehouse Talkback. I'm Daniel Malley, along with Trade Turn

641
00:37:28.920 --> 00:37:33.159
Home and Raj Sharma inside the Treehouse today Monday March tenth,

642
00:37:33.239 --> 00:37:37.079
two thousand twenty five. I say, let's celebrate today, not

643
00:37:37.159 --> 00:37:42.039
because Raj has a disease, but because there's birthdays to celebrate.

644
00:37:42.599 --> 00:37:46.119
Yeah, and I have a disease, and also Raj.

645
00:37:45.960 --> 00:37:46.559
Has a disease.

646
00:37:47.480 --> 00:37:52.960
Olivia wild turns forty one today. Actress, turn director, producer,

647
00:37:53.159 --> 00:37:58.519
and X of one Jason sudetis Olivia Wilde turns forty

648
00:37:58.719 --> 00:38:02.719
one today, which I don't know if you guys knew this,

649
00:38:02.760 --> 00:38:05.320
So it was all, it was all. I didn't follow

650
00:38:05.360 --> 00:38:07.719
the relationship closely, but i'd see little things here and

651
00:38:07.719 --> 00:38:10.719
there between Jason Sadekas and Olivia Wilde because I was

652
00:38:10.760 --> 00:38:13.800
really happy for him, because he's just a normal dude

653
00:38:14.119 --> 00:38:16.360
who happen to be really funny, really talented, but very

654
00:38:16.400 --> 00:38:19.360
average looking if we're being honest, right, And he got

655
00:38:19.440 --> 00:38:23.519
very popular, very famous on Saturday Night Live, which led

656
00:38:23.559 --> 00:38:27.639
to movies and attention and that and part of who

657
00:38:27.679 --> 00:38:30.920
gave him that attention is the very attractive Olivia Wilde.

658
00:38:31.320 --> 00:38:33.920
And even he was stunned that she was giving him

659
00:38:33.960 --> 00:38:36.000
the time of day. Well that's not all she gave him,

660
00:38:36.039 --> 00:38:41.000
because they got married, family, and then eventually, like most

661
00:38:41.039 --> 00:38:44.079
people do, they got divorced. And even their divorce story

662
00:38:44.159 --> 00:38:46.760
is interesting because she was on stage doing some sort

663
00:38:46.800 --> 00:38:49.880
of panel for a film when she got served the

664
00:38:49.960 --> 00:38:54.079
divorce papers. Yes, I mean that is cold blooded. It

665
00:38:54.119 --> 00:38:57.079
wasn't Sadeka's fault. That was just the process server being

666
00:38:57.119 --> 00:39:02.719
a huge, huge wiener. No, it wasn't because I thought

667
00:39:02.760 --> 00:39:05.760
Jason Sedakas came out and said, no, that was not

668
00:39:05.800 --> 00:39:06.840
supposed to that.

669
00:39:07.280 --> 00:39:13.639
In Los Angeles, she was at.

670
00:39:11.599 --> 00:39:16.719
A panel that she was doing for women in film,

671
00:39:17.079 --> 00:39:21.199
women acting, women film, whatever, and he's the one who.

672
00:39:23.159 --> 00:39:24.000
Sent the papers.

673
00:39:24.199 --> 00:39:25.960
Well no, no, he filed for divorce and she had

674
00:39:25.960 --> 00:39:30.719
to be served. So yeah, but he said that was

675
00:39:30.760 --> 00:39:32.360
not supposed to go down that way.

676
00:39:32.400 --> 00:39:38.400
That was a rogue process server. Uh Okay. I have

677
00:39:38.440 --> 00:39:43.519
a buddy that my buddy Brian works at TMZ and

678
00:39:43.559 --> 00:39:48.440
he's like, no, he sent it. It could be I

679
00:39:48.480 --> 00:39:50.760
mean made up. So who knows.

680
00:39:52.360 --> 00:39:58.400
I don't know what TMZ's credibility number is or Raja's

681
00:39:58.440 --> 00:39:59.760
buddy's credibility number.

682
00:40:00.079 --> 00:40:04.400
They well, they they're the ones that said Michael Jackson

683
00:40:04.440 --> 00:40:06.519
died when CNN said he had a heart attack.

684
00:40:06.679 --> 00:40:10.719
So yeah, that was also fifteen years ago.

685
00:40:12.239 --> 00:40:14.039
I mean there was there was a time where TMZ

686
00:40:14.280 --> 00:40:16.119
was probably a reliable source.

687
00:40:16.280 --> 00:40:19.960
Yeah, very at the end of the day, there's still

688
00:40:19.960 --> 00:40:20.559
a tabloid.

689
00:40:20.599 --> 00:40:24.360
So I didn't even think the Sadakas thing.

690
00:40:24.480 --> 00:40:29.039
It actually, like, I know, he said it, he didn't

691
00:40:29.039 --> 00:40:31.440
do it, But that wasn't just divorce papers. I think

692
00:40:31.760 --> 00:40:33.960
that was an ongoing legal battle and I think they

693
00:40:34.000 --> 00:40:37.079
had to deal with yesterday, and so I'm more inclined

694
00:40:37.079 --> 00:40:40.000
to believe that he did know what he was doing.

695
00:40:40.639 --> 00:40:44.199
Yeah, it was about the kid and the house. Yeah,

696
00:40:44.239 --> 00:40:45.679
so you're I think, I think you're right.

697
00:40:46.519 --> 00:40:50.039
Interesting, Yeah, because that I know that it got really

698
00:40:50.119 --> 00:40:51.159
nasty between them.

699
00:40:51.039 --> 00:40:53.039
It did. Yeah. And did you see what she wore

700
00:40:53.159 --> 00:40:59.159
to the Oscars? No? Oh, come on, guys, I didn't

701
00:40:59.199 --> 00:40:59.840
watch the Oscars?

702
00:41:00.079 --> 00:41:00.360
No idea?

703
00:41:00.400 --> 00:41:01.360
What a living in war?

704
00:41:01.440 --> 00:41:02.159
Did you see what?

705
00:41:02.760 --> 00:41:02.960
Yeah?

706
00:41:03.119 --> 00:41:05.880
Just look it up. It's it's kind of kind.

707
00:41:05.840 --> 00:41:07.559
Was it, Adam Sandler that she was wearing?

708
00:41:09.079 --> 00:41:09.239
Uh?

709
00:41:10.559 --> 00:41:16.440
She was in the drawers? Okay, she she was in

710
00:41:16.480 --> 00:41:18.199
her Uh huh.

711
00:41:21.079 --> 00:41:23.079
You fallen in love twice on today's show.

712
00:41:24.679 --> 00:41:28.079
You found it? Yeah, sounds like you found.

713
00:41:27.800 --> 00:41:33.719
It not bad, right, I mean, whoever designed that dress?

714
00:41:35.280 --> 00:41:36.320
I mean I have not seen it.

715
00:41:36.440 --> 00:41:39.480
That would be racy for Victoria's secret. Uh huh.

716
00:41:39.920 --> 00:41:41.599
That doesn't really sound like a dress.

717
00:41:41.679 --> 00:41:44.320
Then it's really, it's not.

718
00:41:44.000 --> 00:41:44.719
It's not.

719
00:41:46.199 --> 00:41:49.119
She's in her under it said sexy lingerie.

720
00:41:49.280 --> 00:41:52.920
No, that's I think she just I think she just

721
00:41:52.960 --> 00:41:59.119
grabbed a curtain, so I'll wear this to the oscars.

722
00:41:59.199 --> 00:42:00.000
It's three.

723
00:42:02.039 --> 00:42:06.519
She missed the rod.

724
00:42:06.800 --> 00:42:13.800
Yeah, you're in the tree house.

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Look the curtain may be see through, but her body isn't.

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You're in the tree house.

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Visit us online a Treehouse on Air dot com.

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You're in the tree house.

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Visit us online a Treehouse on Air dot com.

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Ah.

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Yes.

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If you miss any part of the Treehouse Show, you

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can catch up with the Treehouse Show podcast. Today's a

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great example of that. If you missed any part of

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today's show because you were listening to it on one

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O three point five d X Brownwood, we are, by

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the way, the bad boys of Brownwood for more than

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one reason, you can catch up with the Treehouse Show podcast,

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available on all major podcasting and streaming platforms like Spotify,

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the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts and more. Once again, miss

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any part of the Treehouse Show, catch up with a

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Treehouse Show podcast. Daniel Malley, along with Trey Trenholm and

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Raj Sharma Inside the Treehouse where Raja I take issue

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with something you said during your commercial break. Trey and

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I like good news.

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Mm hm.

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We just also really appreciate bad news because of one

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of the tenets of this Treehouse show, yes, is being

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able to lean into something bad and trying to find

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some las after some humor within. That's that's kind of

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how I have dealt with many things in recent years,

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that is with humor and a slice of grace, but

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mostly humor. Trey is similar because we've been conditioned this way.

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We get bad news, we try to lean into it

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and try to find something to make it more palatable.

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And so when you tell us that you've got perhaps

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this debilitating, debilitating neurological disease, we're.

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But Tray didn't know.

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We're going to make fun of it, and you should.

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And I'm so glad he's like catching up because it

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should be just because at.

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Some point we'll we'll have a live broadcast and part

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of it will be just watching you eat apple sauce.

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Can I just make milkshakes apple sauce? Choot you?

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Oh god?

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Everyone we have to watch Raji try to eat apple sauce.

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Either ways, for everyone.

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I can try to drink water real quick.

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It's it'll it'll be comical if if if they if

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people are on Patreon.

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No, it's because if you're if you're gonna do it,

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there needs to be a splash zone like a Gallagher show.

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Oh it's it's in my pants, Save Saved, Save the

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water works, raj for for the Treehouse road shows. If so,

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we'll watch you eat apple sauce and you and you

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can piss on yourself.

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It'll be it'll be the tiger. I'll just eat apple sauce.

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I'm not pissing myself.

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Famous last words. All I'm saying is for just eighteen

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dollars a month, you too can adopt a sweet, shaky

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brown man because he really needs some exercise. He's been

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stuck in that cage all damn day.

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I don't know why.

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Shut up, Sarah, I.

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Don't know why. We're friends.

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Get a big wheelbar and we'll just.

787
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You're too lazy, so don't say get a wheelbar.

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Oh no, we'll get a big red one and we'll

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we'll we'll wheel you around.

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Oh that would be adorable.

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If you push a brown man around uptown, that won't

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get looks.

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I get donations.

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That's right, it's a literal fun drive. Thanks for hanging

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out with us inside the Treehouse today. Thank you to

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j and his disease. Thank you to Lauren Harkins. It's

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been a big day. Sure to share the show with

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a friend that needs to hear some bad news turned

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into good news. Love you Rosh, Love you too, Love

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you body for all things Treehouse, Treehouse on Air dot com.

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Give us a follow as well at Treehouse on Air.

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We'll see you tomorrow, right back here inside the Treehouse.