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Trey Trenholm and Raj Sharma. Welcome to the Treehouse Show.
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A young lady on TikTok just charted the entire male
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species according to what she says is there dating app behavior?
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Jesse went viral for unveiling her so called men diagram.
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To present you all what I like to call a
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men diagram.
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Okay, In this men diagram, so for those that don't
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know what even diagram is, that's the circles that are
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drawn have words in them and representing something and then
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they overlap and intersect. Right, So in this men diagram,
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you've got the three big circles handsome, smart, and nice.
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So these are the goals I guess she's got for
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finding a man on a dating app. And then inside
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that you've got nerd, jerk, and dumb, and then the
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smallest point of intersection in the middle of all of it.
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Gay All right, okay, do uh I know you've only
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seen this diagram briefly but have you figured out the
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problem with it?
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What do you mean.
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That gay is in the middle. So basically, she's saying,
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if you're all of these things on the dating apps,
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then you are gay.
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Oh okay, I mean kind of like the hot crazy matrix,
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which involves which involves the which is more of a
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yeah line diagram of the you know, hot on one axis,
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crazy on the other, and if you yo are tops
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in both, you're a dude.
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I mean, let's hear more of her in depth beliefs
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on dating apps and men, well feast.
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Your eyes upon. Okay, Me and my friends refer to
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the men diagram often. I often send it to men
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that I'm talking to when I used to be on
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dating apps, and it's a good time. Now. In the comments,
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if the men end up here, I would like you
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to comment where you fall on the men diagram. Now, ladies,
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I would like you to comment what you think. Almost
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every single man I've ever showed this men diagram to
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has answered and how it physically could not be their
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answer because if I told you why, it would give
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away what the answer was.
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But I want you you're not giving anything away.
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She's so dull, I can't even begin to explain how
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bored I am.
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Talk.
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Oh, I can't even imagine going on a date with
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this girl. Like already, I'm like, can you shut up?
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Well, just imagine how excited you might be if you
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match with her on a dating app and the first
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thing she does is sends you this diagram.
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Yeah.
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So the joke, the joke that all the guys make
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on her video and in general, I'm sure in her
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responses that she's referring to is that we all respond with.
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But I'm not going so she thinks that's a sad
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joke to make. It's like, well, that's what the photo is.
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You're saying that in order to be in order to
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encompass all of these traits, then you could only be gay, gotcha.
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I simply say, there could just be another diagram out there.
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This one just happens to be the one that leads
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down the gay path. There could just be another one
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that just makes you a dude unicorn that you possess
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all these things, but you happen to not be gay.
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After two minutes of listening to her talk, I would
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have been like, I'm I hate to tell young gay.
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Uh, that's just I'm about the diagram that did it.
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It was you, You made me gay after fifty years,
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you know what.
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It wasn't until I talk to you that I thought.
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You know what, today I'd like to try some That's
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what i'd like today.
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I want to you make me want dudes. God, I
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just can't imagine talking to her for longer than this video.
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There's look I stopped at early. There's more she's got.
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She doesn't say anything, but there's more to the video,
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and then she posts a follow up. But the follow
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up is as useful as she is in general. But
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it's still I mean, this whole thing has gone viral
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because of its ridiculous nature. That's how it came across
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my eyeballs, and that's why I wanted to present it
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to you. Guys. Here is look, dating is hard. Dating
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is hard now. Dating was hard twenty years ago. Dating
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has always been hard. Okay, that's not fair. There was
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the old days, in the caveman days where he just
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bomped a woman on the head with the club, dragged
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her back to your cave. That's not actually dating. So
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I guess I could still say dating is hard.
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Yeah, it's much harder now than it was even twenty
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years ago, hell, even ten years ago.
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But you know, I also I think you could look at.
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That diagram and go, uh, you know, how do guys
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react to being a boring bitch?
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Yeah, we're in need of some other. Yeah, it's like
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maybe it's you. That's the social media account that I
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saw this on. That's the comment I posted from the
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Treehouse on Air account, just simply saying, who wants to
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tell her the real problem?
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Too much pink? What's the common denominator? Yeah, that's what
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it's like.
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Uh, if we were to do because lots of the
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comments in the video also point out it's like I
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wonder what the woman's diagram would look like. Uh, it's basically,
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you know, a circle with women in accountability, but they
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rarely ever cross.
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Yeah. I mean like I hadn't you know. My ex
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was like, you know, women don't don't really get along
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with me, Like that's why I don't have a lot
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of female friends. And I'm like, it's you. Women want
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to get along with other women. Uh they do, but
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you're just yeah, And so when I see this lady,
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I'm like, ah, same same stuff.
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Yeah. There's it's interesting because I've i've seen this with
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a few women in my life where they have said like, ah,
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women don't like me, blah blah blah blah blah. After
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being around those examples, being around those females for a while,
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I began to realize why it was other women didn't
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like them. It was because she would basically their friends.
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Yes.
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Well, frankly, yeah, I know, I know, I know.
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I don't know why women just don't like me. Well,
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you've got to stop being their boyfriends. That's a big
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part of it.
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The problem just might.
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Be you women are harder on other women like then,
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like guys are not. Guys are not near as hard
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on other guys as women are on other women.
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We don't have to be because we know how hard
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on us women can be. System. That's why bros are bros.
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That's why it's bros before hose. It's because, buddy, I
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know what you've been through.
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It's like that episode of uh Friends where he, you know,
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dating the girl Ross's dating the girl Julian and then
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ends up kissing Rachel and then they talk about it,
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and there's two different shots when the girl's like, you know,
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how was it? It's like, you know, slow at first,
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and then it was passionate. He grab my hair, and
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then it cuts to the guys. It's like, so I
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kissed her. It's like tongue yeah, solid, good job, good job, buddy.
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That's it.
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We're not We're not. We don't care how good your
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technique is. You did it good.
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Yeah. So I can see why this went viral. I
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get the the idea behind it, uh, but it's still
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that person like I don't I don't know what her
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history of dating uh is and how many guys she's
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gone out with that she created this then diagram, but
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I think it's just it should just be one circle
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and say me.
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My fault.
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Yeah, but I think that's what like like my new girlfriend.
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I think one of the things I I think makes us.
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Click is.
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She doesn't seem to have the excessive need for communication
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that a lot of women do.
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I would like to point out right here and now
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two things. Number one tradeous girlfriend. So it's official, it
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is number two. I hear wedding bells. I just want
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to go on the record, having called it this early
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in the relationship. The date at time of recording November third,
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twenty twenty five, twelve forty seven Atlantic Standard time ten
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forty seven Central time, just so it's noted well.
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And I said that to you know, Amy, my best friend.
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You know you've known Amy Newman Mack and I love
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her to death. We've been friends for over thirty years.
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And I have been asked like, how come y'all never dated?
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And I'm like, I don't. We just never, We're never
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in that position, Like I've never thought of Amy that way.
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What are the reasons?
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Is?
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And I love her to death, but Amy's need for
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communication is epic. Yeah, like and here, so we had
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at three coin for some reason, Randy had a pet scorpion.
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Don't ask me why, I don't know.
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And it was in a bowl whatever and uh, you know,
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feed at crickets whatever. Well the scorpion died last week.
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Oh and for your lost, I was glad to see
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it go.
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Uh but did you have the service?
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Did the guys from the scorpion show up to see?
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But this is so I I told Amy, you know,
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I asked her about it, and she starts talking, you know,
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like why just don't know what happened? I mean, and
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like she would have talked for ten minutes about everything. Well,
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I gave it crickets and did this and that.
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I don't know. It's like sometimes things just die, just
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like this conversation. Can we stop about the scorpion? Now?
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What do you want to eat?
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I'd also like to point out that Trey, you have
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a hell of a time picking bosses.
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There's some de counseling that could be going on here.
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