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It is time to leave your worries outside and laugh
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with us inside the treehouse. I'm Daniel Malley along with
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Trey Trendholm and Raj Sharma. Today is Wednesday, June fourth,
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twenty twenty five. Against my better judgment, I'm going to
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ask Trey what that s eating grin on his face
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is all about.
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So before we started, we were talking about songs, music,
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and closing time came up and I was telling you
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all that that song is actually about childbirth.
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And you know, everyone thinks it's not about the death
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of one O two point one the edge. That's how
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I know it.
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But no, it's like, so the guy wrote it when
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his wife was giving birth, and yeah, everyone thinks it's
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about actually kicking you know, the end of the night
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at the bar. But it's like one of the lines,
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you know, this room won't be open to your brother
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or your sister.
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Come, oh, hilarious. But why the finish a whiskey and beer.
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I don't remember all of it. I just that's it.
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That's a weird thing to do in the delivery room.
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It was something about his wife was giving birth and
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the process of whatever.
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Yeah, so I just love basically, yeah, I just love
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how the artist is like, Okay, honey, push, does anybody
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have a pen and paper? I have a song to write. No,
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you're doing great, babe, you're doing great. I'm about to
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write our only hit. I'm paying for college.
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Yeah, we have not mentioned it yet. We might as
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well take the opportunity here to do so. Our very
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own Trey Trendholm is celebrating right now because he is
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leaving the service industry after many, many years. That's why
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we were talking about closing time the song because it's
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on the closing playlist of the bar in Dallas that
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Trey has worked out for a while now, and it's
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closing time for Trey's time in the service industry. And
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I don't know if I've ever seen Trey happier.
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Not since we quit doing mornings, I have not like
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it has been.
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I've never really thought about the hours and everything else,
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and really they never really bothered me until I started
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realizing I was leaving this. And then the last couple
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of weeks have been grueling because you just it's you know,
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working four pm to three am is just a it's
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a it's a long day. And like Sunday, I woke
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up and I was like, this is the last Sunday.
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I'm gonna feel like crap, just from after four days
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no sleep and just feeling worn out. And it really is.
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It's it's like doing morning. So yeah, today and tomorrow
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and then I am done.
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The last Sunday. You're going to feel like crap. I think.
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I think Jesus said that once once. I mean, is
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that you're Johnny dangerously Jesus said that once once, and.
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I'll keep in mind Trey. Trey and I were very
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happy when we were we were on the air at
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ninety seven one The Eagle in Dallas. We were doing mornings,
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and then we were told we were asked, what would
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you think about going to afternoons? We we like, we
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started packing things up as if we had to physically
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move them to go to afternoons. We didn't, uh, but
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we were so excited. We're like, yay, it's a movie time. Well,
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couldn't wait to get home and change my alarm clock.
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Now keep Now we realized the irony in the fact
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that we're doing mornings again now on one of three
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point five the X in Brown would but our schedule
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is a little different than than what it used to be.
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So we're very happy to be doing mornings in Brownwood.
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We hated doing mornings in Dallas.
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Yeah. I remember when we did them for when Pugs
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and Kelly were on air quotes vacation, uh and we
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had to do mornings. That was uh oh.
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And we were at Live one oh five three.
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Yeah that was RAJ wasn't used to that. So what
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time do I have to be there? Three?
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Neither was I because because Jagger went on vacation and
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they wanted us to fill in on mornings. So okay,
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so we did the morning show on Live one o
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five three, filling in for Jagger, and then I had
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to come back. Oh yeah, that's the Russ Martin Show
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in the afternoon. And by come back, I mean stay
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all day.
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Into the evening. I mean I still do for forever
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and I just.
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The name of the other guy, but it was Haljay
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whoever it was on w BAP E twenty.
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It was they were on forever, but they did mornings
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and afternoons. I'd love to do that for years. I'm like,
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how do you do that? Yeah? That's wild? Like I
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would you know, I would always judge people a walk
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in like you know, restaurant or whatever to pick up
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a to go order, and I'd see people like at
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the bar drinking. I'm like, who are these people that
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are drinking at noon? And I'm like, oh, morning show.
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Guys, that's where you will find us.
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Yeah, because it's dinner time, so might as well have
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a few scotches with your spaghetti. You know.
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You know what this never ending basta ball is missing. Look, man,
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you do morning radio for a while, you you will
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make some odd life decisions. There's no doubt about it.
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Yeah. I do remember very distinctly, like the first time
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we filled in and we're all leaving, and I think
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there was one bar that opened like ten forty five.
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It was like for the lunch area that was on Greenville,
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and it was like, so do you guys want to
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grab some dinner? And I'm like it's ten forty five,
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Oh yeah, we've been here since three point thirty in
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the morning. Might as well get something to eat. And
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then everybody started drinking and I was like, Okay, this
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is very strange. And then you walk out and it's
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like that scene in Varsity Blues where everybody walks out
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of the strip club and it's still light like, I
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don't feel good about this at all.
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I still remember one of the worst times when my
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alarm clock went off when I was doing a morning shift.
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It was covering for Jagger. I think it was that
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same week that you're talking about, raj Is. The alarm
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starts to go off, and my eyes slowly peel open,
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and as I look across the room to the alarm clock,
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because if you work mornings, you put that alarm clock
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across the room, so you have to get up and
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take physical steps to turn it off. My eyes peel
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open and I look at the clock, and I swear
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to God, it was upside down.
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I remember this, I have this text. I still had
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that text somewhere.
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And the problem was, as I started to really mentally
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come to I didn't know for sure if it was
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the clock that was upside down or me. Because if
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you're not used to waking up that early, your body
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is going to do things to really mess you up.
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And there's no other way to put it without swearing.
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I texted you. I remember this because I texted you.
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I said I'm gonna I'm gonna be five minutes late,
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and your response was I woke up upside down.
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And I made it on time.
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is the Treehouse Show. I'm Daniel Malley along with Trede,
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Trendholme and Raj Sharma. Today is Wednesday, June fourth, twenty
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twenty five. There is a new trend that is attacking relationships.
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It's called sleep divorce. Are you guys familiar with sleep divorce?
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No?
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No good. I'm going to now enlighten you about the dark.
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Sleep divorce is when a couple decides to sleep in
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separate beds. The relationship is still intact, They're still romantically
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linked in other ways, just not at bedtime.
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Okay.
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This is the new trend that has gained popularity over
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recent years, sleep divorce. According to a sleep device manufacturer, ResMed,
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they recently conducted their annual global sleep survey and they
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found that sixty one percent of people who sleep separately
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from their partner they said they sleep better. Sixty percent
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of people who sleep separately from their partner reported having
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better sleep quality. In addition to that, nearly eighteen percent
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of couples who slept separately every single night. That's actually
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just a really awkwardly worded sentence. In addition, nearly eighteen
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percent of couples slept separately every night, with the US
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and the UK split evenly between the two camps. So
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this is not something that is just US based. This
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is not something just Australia. This is worldwide. People are
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starting to realize they sleep better alone.
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Yeah. I mean when I was married, I did that
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because I would come home from the comedy clubs late
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night and Claire had the nine to five gig, so
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I don't want to wake her up. And broken sleep
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is the worst sleep. To wake up, even if it's
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for a minute or two and then go back to sleep.
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It's just whatever. That is just disrupture circadian rhythm, I believe.
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And then what's up circadian circadian rhythm? I think I
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said that I can spell it, yeah, and I did that.
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And then with the X, we had multiple dogs in
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the bed and I love that, but it would just
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get too hot for me, so I would fall asleep
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in the bed or wait for her to sleep, and
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then I would get up and move just so I
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wasn't like covered in dogs. So but I did.
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I don't have any continuous sleep anymore throughout the night.
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If I roll over from one side to the other,
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that's broken sleep for me. I'm gonna waken me up.
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Oh interesting, Okay, so you wake up to readjust yeah, wow, okay,
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I can kind of sleep through it. There's every now
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and again. But it's the it's the three a m p.
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That's and I'm almost fifty, so you'll you'll start to
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get more frequent.
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Oh no, I have that.
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Oh there you go. Okay, so then you know I.
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Have the three o'clock tinkles.
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I do. Yeah. That's where you learn you can fall
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asleep standing up.
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It's also where you learn you can pee lying down.
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And the wife walks in and says, when did we
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get a fountain in here?
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I want to sleep divorce?
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Granted, I get it, though, Look, if you have trouble
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sleeping because your partner is doing something that is disturbing
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your sleep, it makes perfect sense to me that you
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would want to sleep in separate beds. And when they
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say separate beds, they mean a separate bed in another room.
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Because this isn't just like the fifties television show where
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you're both sleeping in a twin sized bed with a
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night stand between you. No, the idea is to get
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away from your partners so you can get more RESTful sleep,
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and in some cases that means going into a completely
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different room to do it. I mean, and not because
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you're in trouble.
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I mean, didn't we just it makes sense? Didn't we just?
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Wasn't There a study that came out it seems recently
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that said couples that have separate bathrooms are happier.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, I can. I can understand that. You
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don't want to know how nasty your partner is.
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Right, and possibly related. In another survey about romantic relationships, supposedly,
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men in twenty twenty five are dating more for peace
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than they are looks. So, according to a new study
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in twenty twenty five, men prefer to date for peace
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than they do beauty and knowing Trey as well as
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I do, he's one of them.
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Yeah, I mean I I was doing it all wrong.
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I was murdering for peace. I just fitted killing them
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was easier, I'm gonna date for it.