Feb. 25, 2026

When Murder Research Goes Too Far | Wednesday 02.25.26

When Murder Research Goes Too Far | Wednesday 02.25.26
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We start off today with the aftermath of Trey surprising the show with the news about Daisy's death, which leads us to talking about GenX's ability to surpress our emotions. We discuss the murder trial of a Utah woman who wrote a children's book about loss for her kids when their father died (she's accused of murdering him). Then we ask the question is GenZ dumb and is it GenX's fault. And finally, 15 tips for a happier home if you share a bathroom.

LINKS:

https://www.cnn.com/2026/02/22/us/kouri-richins-utah-trial

https://www.buzzfeed.com/gabriellermoss/things-that-will-keep-the-peace-if-you-and-your-partner?origin=web-hf

https://www.yahoo.com/news/articles/u-spent-30-billion-ditch-110200869.html

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Want more Treehouse, check out our YouTube exclusive shows at

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YouTube dot com. Slash at Treehouse on air.

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It is time believe your worries outside and laugh with

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us inside the Treehouse. I'm Daniel Malley, along with Trey

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Trendholme and our friend and returning guest Rebecca Black.

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Yes, Hie, how are y' all?

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Trey's been better? If we're being.

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Honest, I'm sorry, Trey.

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The applause is for you, not for those right, not

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for my dog dying. Thanks, I'll turn that office.

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How about applause for her because she was an awesome

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dog for fifteen years. That's heaven clapping because they got

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an angel.

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I hit the wrong button. Here we go here, here,

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here's the one I meant to hit. Sorry. I can't

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let tension just hang for too long. I have to

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break it at some point. It's it's a crutch of mine.

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But yes, I agree with everything you just said, Rebecca.

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Thank you.

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On today's show. In addition to trying to help you

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leave your worries outside and laugh with us inside the Treehouse,

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it's also a little more focused today for Trey because

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he's going through a time and we're going to do

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our best to make him feel better right here inside

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the treehouse. So we're going to start with the top

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top the top ten status dog photos from the SPCA.

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I'm just kidding you.

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I shouldn't even have laughed at that.

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The fact that you did says a lot. I know.

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I'm so disturbed. I'm sorry. I apologize.

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I fully expect you to, you know, get revenge on

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me for surprising you with that yesterday.

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Well here's the thing, and then we'll get into some

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seriously stupid news stories. So, Rebecca, this is what happened yesterday.

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Trey teased us by saying, hey, I've got this big surprise.

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We're gonna save it for the end of the show.

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It's like, okay, cool, and I was kind of excited,

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and then and then Trey lays it on its It's like,

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so on Friday, I had to put Daisy down and

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Roj and I just lost it because we weren't ready

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for that. So Trey pulled an all time bait and

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switch on us. And that's that's pretty cold.

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Yeah, I agree. What why would you call that a surprise?

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Well, I.

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Had to, you know, tease it somehow and not let

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Dan on because I said on it because I wanted

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to get their honest reaction. If I told them beforehand,

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they'd have time, you know, mentally be prepared. And you know,

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every once in a while, getting Dan to express emotion

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is something, you know, worthwhile.

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Yeah, sure I get that. How did that pan out?

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He got some?

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Okay?

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Good?

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Did you cry with him? Because I would have cried

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with you, Trey.

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Oh yeah, yeah, tears were shed. I'm not I'm not

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a complete mechanical thing like Trey seems to think I

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am at time.

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No, I'm happy to know that. Honestly, I feel I

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feel a little closer to you now, Dan, you have

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actual emotions here.

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There's an emotion, There's an emotion chip in there somewhere.

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He just tries to keep it buried.

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Yeah. I do the same thing, though, if I'm being honest,

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I love pushing down bad things and making obscure, awful

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jokes about it. You know, I totally get it.

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I think that's kind of a generational thing with all

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of us. I feel like, as you know, it's ardent

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gen z slash zenial like Rebecca is. I feel like

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that's part of what binds us reckon your gen z.

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I mean, sorry, zenial, meaning.

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Half millennial, half gen X order line.

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Yeah, yeah, Rebecca, Yeah, it's called suppressing trauma.

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Yes, that's exactly right. Suppressing trauma is definitely a generational

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identity that I think now honestly, we probably learned from

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our Greatest generation grandparents because they a lot of them

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came back from the war really didn't talk about it much.

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They just drank a lot at the VFW post. I mean,

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at least that was my grandfather.

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Well, my dad was, you know, technically part of that

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Greatest generation. He didn't he was on the latter end.

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He was born in thirty five, but that just they

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didn't show emotion. And honestly, listen, one of the most

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weird things with my mom being in hospice and it's

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like she reached out, she grabbed my hand, and I

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felt so awkward because I realized she had never really

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we had never really had.

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Any physical contact. Yeah, I mean, yeah, that generation was different.

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I also think it has a little something to do

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with We've been through a lot of life events like

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Wars nine to eleven, COVID, like a lot of traumatic

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things have happened in our lifespan. So therefore we don't

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know how to really emotionally deal with things. I don't think.

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Yeah. I think one of the great examples of this

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is when Space Shuttle Challenger exploded in eighty six. Yes,

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so like my dad, my dad was a big space guy,

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and so he had me stay home from school that

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day to watch it.

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Yeah.

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There I am in the living room watching you know,

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the floor television and watch this thing blow up and

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we're just just stunned. Yeah, but I wasn't in school.

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I was at home, Whereas there were kids that saw

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it in school and they were just like, Okay, then

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they just wheeled the TV out of the room and

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then just kind of went to arithmetic. That happened to you.

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That was me. I was in kindergarten and they had

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all put us in the cafeteria willed in the TV,

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and then we literally watched it explode and then we

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just went about our day like it was not even

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a big deal. There was no like assembly afterwards to

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explain really what happened. I don't even think I truly

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knew that people were on board and had died.

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Yeah, they didn't bring in grief counselors. I'm not even

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sure that was a job.

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Back then, No, that was definitely not a thing.

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Now, one of our teachers had been one of the

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finalists for the Christie Ride spot, so that hit really

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close to home.

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With my school. So I think that added a sense

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of realness to it.

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Sure, And then we never really talked about it again

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except later on in life.

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And then now we make jokes.

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Kind of how we roll, speaking of making light ofs.

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And then when Columbia crashes, then we make a lot

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of jokes.

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Yeah, we really did. That was really inappropriate, some of

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the things we said at that time. But at the

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same time, it was also deserved because the jokes we

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made when Columbia tragedy happened with the Shuttle Columbia, we

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weren't making fun of NASA or the astronauts that perish.

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We were making fun of the East Texans who were

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picking up artifacts, yeah, and then trying to sell it

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on eBay. And then we were making fun of CNN

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for finding its way to East East Texas and putting

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those yokels on television.

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I mean, I don't think anything screams better ratings than

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East Texan redneck plugging around some space garbage.

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Hey, Mama, look what I found out I found the shield.

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At Levandera's fat ass out there trying to talk to him.

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That was at the time the show radio show. We

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got banned from CNN because we Russ's first question to

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him was, what's wrong with you? Why are you putting

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all the dumb people on TV? And they got very,

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very offended, and you know, told me that we could

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not say things like that. I go, We're from Texas,

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We're based in Texas. Yes we can say that about

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Texas people.

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I agree. It's like when somebody talks smack about your family,

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like your mom or something, you're not having it, but

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you're allowed to talk smack about your mom when you want.

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That's a bad example with me.

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I'll pretty much let people talk shit about my mom.

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But but yeah, now my dad different stories. Those might

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be fighting words.

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Okay, cool, so see you can kind of relate.

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Yeah, all right, Well it looks like Dan has some problems.

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So we're going to go to break right now and

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then we'll be back.

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Like are the dogs drinking the martinis?

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One?

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What hope?

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Like? Fingers cross? A bunch of drunk dogs just hanging

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out having a good time.

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Look, if Starbucks can do it, then I think the

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candle room.

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Can I agree?

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Okay? And one of my favorite headlines of the week,

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and I'm excited to discuss it with you. She wrote

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a children's book to help her sons grieve the death

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of their father. Her trial for murdering him starts this week.

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She's a hero and she took one for the team

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so she could write this book.

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I think he's the one that took it for the team.

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Okay Utah.

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Defendant Corey Richins is accused of fatally poisoning her husband

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with fentanyl. Prosecutors cite financial strain and alleged motives. She

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maintains innocence. Now, if we were to morph into a

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true crime podcast, this would be where we'd start, because

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this is a doozy. She, depending on your perspective, might

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be the hero or the villain, or she may be

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both all at the same time. So let me ask

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you this. The woman who wrote a book for her

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children about grief is about to start her trial for

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murdering their father. If this is true, if she did this,

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is she the most diabolical murderer ever? Not the worst,

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not the most grotesque, not the most heinous, just the

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most diabolical. Because we didn't really know who Jack the

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Ripper was until maybe recently, that's over one hundred years.

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No one ever came out and wrote a book. He

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didn't come out and be.

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Like it was me.

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I did it, And here's how.

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I don't know if I would call her diabolical. I

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just feel like it's standard practice. If you're gonna write

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a paper, you have to do research, right, And that

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seems like what she did, like she was really getting

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into the project, doing her homework. That way, she can

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now tell her children how to deal with the grief

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if they're actually going through it in real time.

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It's sort of like a chicken in egg scenario. It was,

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isn't that she felt the need to write a book

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about grief because she killed her husband. She wanted to

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write a book about grief, but in order to truly

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tap into the emotion she needed, she realized at one

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point she needed to off the do to make it authentic.

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Yeah, yeah, I think this is where it really When

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did she start the book?

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That's a good question.

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I think if she started the book before the husband died,

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then I think, yes, she is the most diabolical person.

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Otherwise I think she's you know, a great example of capitalism.

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This is no different. This is no different than when

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OJ wrote a book.

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Did it?

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We all.

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True, I mean, but obviously she probably did it too.

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I don't think you. I don't think you get so inspired. Necessarily,

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I need to read the book. Does the book have

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details of the murder in it, because then we'll know, right, Oh, man,

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I don't similar scenario.

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Well, I mean it's not it's not a crime book.

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I mean it's a children's book for grief.

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Right, So daddy was poisoned. That's not going to start, right.

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They're lucky it was he was poisoned in that he

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wasn't stabbed to death, and they're they're lucky. It wasn't

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a pop up book. It's a kid's book. So I

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go to you know, yeah, how you know the stuff

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I grew up with. Hey, let me see if we

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can get any more information here on the details of

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alleged murderer and confirmed author Corey Richins.

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Let me also say, because they're just low key crazy,

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it's it's a very Utah thing.

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So it was not intentional. But we've now watched three documentaries,

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three completely separate documentaries, three completely separate stories that all

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just happened to take place in Utah.

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Which ones did you watch? Yes?

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Okay, one was the there was two on sort of

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the same situation. The situation was like the Family of

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Eight YouTube family where the mom was doing the vlog

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about the family and.

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She got hooked up with the crazy woman and then.

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Yeah, yeah it would be fine.

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Yah.

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Yeah, So we saw that one, and then later we

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saw the one that was more focused on what we

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all know to be her lesbian lover life coach who

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was abusing the kids in the desert. So yeah, watch two.

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I saw that one, the one that was on Jody

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I think it was their named Jody.

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Something was the girlfriend, right, yeah, yes, yeah, that one

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was shady.

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Yeah, and that they did this in like the public

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eye for years.

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And it was interesting too because I liked how in

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both documentaries they would show screen grabs of comments from

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the YouTube where people are like, this is this is

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different than how this channel started this, and like the

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people were watching it and commenting on it in real time, going,

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there's something seriously wrong here. Yeah, speaking of seriously wrong.

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About a year after her husband's death, Corey Richins published

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published a children's book to help her three sons cope

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with their grief.

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Rich that timing helps, it doesn't, but I mean that's true,

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but it's still quick.

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Richard said during an interview promoting the book. Just because

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he's not present here with us physically, that doesn't mean

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his presence is not here with us. That is still here,

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It's just in a different way. A month later, she

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was arrested and accused of poisoning her husband with a

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lethal dose of fentanyl. In twenty twenty two, starting this week,

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opening arguments start in her trial, where she is alleged

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to have murdered her husband of nine years. Prosecutors alleged

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she killed him for financial gain and to start a

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new life with the man with whom she was having

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an affair. She is also accused of attempting to poison

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her husband on Valentine's Day, weeks before his death. She's

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pleaded not guilty. If she's convicted, she could face up

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to life in prison. She also faces additional financial charges

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in some sort of separate case. Lethal dose. Okay, So,

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the husband was found dead in the couple's bedroom early

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morning hours of March fourth, twenty twenty two. Earlier that night,

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Corey brought cocktails up to their room to celebrate his

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success with her real estate business. That's according to an

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account she gave to investigators. She told authorities one of

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their sons was having bad dreams, so she went to

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sleep in his room around nine point thirty. When she

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returned roughly six hours later, she said she found her

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husband dead in the bed. Okay, she calls nine to

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one one, et cetera, et cetera. Autopsy revealed he died

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from a Fitnel overdose, with about five times the lethal

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dose in his blood. So, I mean, you really want

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someone dead giving him that. She told investigators her husband

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would sometimes take THHG gummies before bed and that she

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believed they could have contained Fintanila likely story. She told

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authority she didn't think he'd eatn one. A year later,

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she said she thought he did eat a gummy, changing

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the story. Medical examiner did not detect THHC. A woman

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who cleaned the houses told investigators that Corey had asked

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for Finanila in early twenty twenty two. The woman said

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she bought more than fifteen pills she thought to contain

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Finnel from a drug dealer. I'm still trying to find

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to see when she started writing the book before or after,

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you know, like it maybe if she hadn't even started

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the book before she killed him allegedly, maybe she was

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just starting like the outline.

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Yeah, you know, there were notes around the house. There's

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probably post. It's galore in some sort of trore somewhere.

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Murder first right here?

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Yes, well, she probably in thinking about this thought, how

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am I?

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You know, I'm gonna have to get my kids through this.

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They're going to lose their father. I'll write a book,

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so at least they taking some mental notes.

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Sure.

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Well, some of her mental notes were typed into Google,

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which is one of the ways that seemed to bust

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criminals these days, because you can't just commit a crime.

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You can't just commit a murder. You have to ask

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Google or chat GPT about it first.

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People are so stupid nowadays. Technology is everywhere. It's following,

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it's watching every move you make. Why on earth would

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you consult the chat GPT or the Google for anything

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murder related. You've got to ask people on the street instead.

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That's right, You got to go old school Verba.

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Yes, yes, she.

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Manually deleted more than eight hundred messages with the the

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woman I believe the cleaner contact from January to mid

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March twenty twenty two, so before the husband died, as

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well as a significant amount of cell phone data from

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that same period. After she was informed of her husband's

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cause of death, her phone's Internet history included visits to

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websites about women's prisons in Utah, life insurance payments, and

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how police recovered deleted cell phone data.

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Wow.

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Wow, here's a clue for you. If you're trying to

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commit a crime, If you're searching how police recovered deleted

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cell phone data, you're already screwed.

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Yeah, you are cooked.

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As soon as you hit enter, you are done. Yep.

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A defense attorney who no longer represents her previously said

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the searches were merely a response to the investigation, not

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indicative of guilt.

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Sure, they have to say that.

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I still don't see anywhere in this story where it

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says if it says it at all when she started

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writing the book, Because I will say that would be

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an interesting part. That'd be a huge piece of the

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case for a prosecution if they found evidence of that

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she's planning on writing a book and about if I'm.

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Being honest, though, the evidence that you just presented seems

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pretty open and shutcase. I don't even think the book

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needs to factor into the court story at this point.

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Like it's a done deal.

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That might just be kind of scoreboarding.

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Yeah, running up the score.

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I like it yeah, yeah, I can't tell. Look, this

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is amazing. We have an uncanny ability on this show

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to ask a question, to want the answer to a

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piece of a story that is nowhere in the story itself. Yeah,

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it's amazing. How many I think we do this trade

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on at least a weekly basis, and this is a

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huge piece. How does the person I mean, this is

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like this story here I think is associated press. I mean,

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you're like the Krim de la Krem of journalism. Well,

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there are those of us in the world going, well,

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when did she start writing that book?

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Why not?

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Or at least when when did the first draft show

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up on a editor or publisher's desk, Because you know,

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a year later it came out. So but if it

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shows up on the publisher's desk a month after the death, yeah,

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there's some savy things going.

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On, for sure, Even more so if it's a month before. Yeah,

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it's kind of like we mentioned with Ojay. His book

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was called If I Did It? Now? If he had

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published a book called When I Do It? All right,

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I'm going to shift here, but I need to ask

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a very important question that has no segue value whatsoever.

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It's just an outright question is gen Z dummer?

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Yes? Yeah? Is the sky blue? Yeah?

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I bet that. I bet the book Murdering Lady a

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gen Zer.

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Okay, let me rephrase. Is gen Z dumb? Or is

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gen Z just the product of the tools we have

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given them both? The reason I ask is because both

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might be the right answer. The United States spent over

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thirty billion dollars putting laptops into classrooms, and experts worry

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it may have hurt learning. Schools went all in on

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devices to modernize education. Critics now point to shorter attention

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spans and weaker deep learning skills. Unlimited screens in math

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class did not automatically create academic excellence. So should we

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go back to big chief tablets?

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Yeah? Books absolutely, good old fashioned book learning chalkboard. Let's

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do this.

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This really is one of those things I got. Actually,

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in a way, I feel sorry for gen Z because

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aren't they correct me if I have my math wrong?

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Because I did it on pendulum paper? Isn't a lot

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of gen Z gen X's kids.

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Yes, I listen.

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I don't understand the disconnect because as gen X, we

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love to brag about how we grew up, but then

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we've completely screwed up the our child's generation behind us. Yes, Tray,

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your hand is up, thank you, sir.

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And I'll tell you how, because I absolutely gen X

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is to blame for gen Z. And it goes like this.

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I don't remember we've talked about this or not I've

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said this to somebody. We like, we were parented. We

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were you know, the forgotten ones. We were just left

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to fend for ourselves everything else. And I think a

475
00:26:48.200 --> 00:26:51.160
lot of gen xers raised their kids like that, the

476
00:26:51.319 --> 00:26:57.880
X factor being social media and the Internet. Whereas you know,

477
00:26:57.960 --> 00:27:01.200
if we decided we wanted to be a cat, you

478
00:27:01.240 --> 00:27:03.640
would have to either go to the World Book Encyclopedia

479
00:27:03.880 --> 00:27:05.640
or go to the library and look in the Dewey

480
00:27:05.640 --> 00:27:08.559
decimal system under you know, I don't know, biographies or

481
00:27:08.599 --> 00:27:11.160
whatever and find how to be a cat.

482
00:27:12.440 --> 00:27:13.920
Gen Z they could just.

483
00:27:13.880 --> 00:27:17.920
Go online and they could find someone with the same oddity.

484
00:27:18.279 --> 00:27:21.920
Whatever they wanted, whatever they wanted to think, feel, whatever,

485
00:27:22.079 --> 00:27:25.920
they were validated by the Internet and social media. And

486
00:27:26.000 --> 00:27:30.720
that's why you have this. You know, they're so sure

487
00:27:30.759 --> 00:27:34.480
they're right about everything. I mean, they're morons half the time.

488
00:27:35.519 --> 00:27:38.519
Yeah, just because Google had a website pop up that

489
00:27:38.599 --> 00:27:41.640
confirms the thing you were looking for. Doesn't make it correct.

490
00:27:42.119 --> 00:27:45.000
It just proves confirmation bias bias.

491
00:27:45.400 --> 00:27:48.160
No, I think what happens is it presents so many

492
00:27:48.200 --> 00:27:51.000
things in your favor because you've written the question out

493
00:27:51.000 --> 00:27:53.359
on the internet designed that way, so you're only going

494
00:27:53.400 --> 00:27:55.599
to get the responses that you're looking for, if that

495
00:27:55.640 --> 00:27:57.799
makes any sense, whereas in a book where it's been

496
00:27:57.799 --> 00:28:02.799
printed and researched, it's giving you the one answer. If

497
00:28:02.799 --> 00:28:03.480
that makes sense.

498
00:28:03.880 --> 00:28:06.920
Yeah, I'm real big on perspective. Like, part of the

499
00:28:06.920 --> 00:28:10.440
reason I think that we as gen X are one

500
00:28:10.440 --> 00:28:16.880
of the most resilient generations is because we try and

501
00:28:16.920 --> 00:28:19.559
I have talked about this, because we went from analog

502
00:28:19.720 --> 00:28:26.440
to digital. We we've gone from you know, writing things

503
00:28:26.519 --> 00:28:31.440
down to typing things out. We've gone from reading the

504
00:28:31.519 --> 00:28:34.440
hands on a clock to knowing how digital it's easy.

505
00:28:35.519 --> 00:28:37.480
We know how to use a rotary phone. And when

506
00:28:37.480 --> 00:28:39.839
they put a rotary phone in front of gen Z kids,

507
00:28:39.880 --> 00:28:43.640
that's it's like the monkeys with tools at the beginning

508
00:28:43.640 --> 00:28:46.480
of two thousand and one a Space Odyssey. They have

509
00:28:46.559 --> 00:28:50.559
no idea. And so that's why I say maybe the

510
00:28:50.640 --> 00:28:54.079
important thing is not to give them the digital stuff first,

511
00:28:54.200 --> 00:28:58.480
but start with the analog stuff, so you have a

512
00:28:58.559 --> 00:29:01.319
basis and can build from there.

513
00:29:03.039 --> 00:29:06.319
I agree. I think you're absolutely right now.

514
00:29:06.400 --> 00:29:11.400
That being said, when we were kids we had electricity.

515
00:29:11.480 --> 00:29:14.839
We didn't need to go back to our grandparents' generation

516
00:29:15.400 --> 00:29:18.880
to appreciate lights. We had to start with candles. We

517
00:29:18.920 --> 00:29:22.400
didn't need that. But I just feel like there's such

518
00:29:22.400 --> 00:29:27.039
a huge trajectory between analog and digital that us getting

519
00:29:27.039 --> 00:29:29.880
electricity versus candle lights is not quite the same.

520
00:29:33.400 --> 00:29:36.359
I mean, we also, we just we screwed them up

521
00:29:36.480 --> 00:29:41.599
so badly because we tolerated instead of going and corrected

522
00:29:41.640 --> 00:29:46.119
them and saying, no, we just let them do whatever

523
00:29:46.319 --> 00:29:46.759
they want.

524
00:29:46.880 --> 00:29:50.400
I mean, and I'm going to probably offend some people here.

525
00:29:50.880 --> 00:29:54.200
We started questioning the very basics of biology of male

526
00:29:54.319 --> 00:30:00.000
female and let it go on, unfettered, uncorrected, just run rampant,

527
00:30:01.200 --> 00:30:06.279
and you now have just a whole just completely fucked

528
00:30:06.359 --> 00:30:06.920
up generation.

529
00:30:07.400 --> 00:30:10.480
So it'll correct itself in the long run, though, I

530
00:30:10.519 --> 00:30:11.119
think I.

531
00:30:11.119 --> 00:30:13.160
Think what we've done is is where the pendulum that

532
00:30:13.240 --> 00:30:16.440
overcorrect Because Gray's right, we parent how we're parented, right,

533
00:30:16.880 --> 00:30:18.440
and so that's part of the reason why training and

534
00:30:18.440 --> 00:30:22.559
I you don't got kids and Emmy and Rebecca. Uh,

535
00:30:22.599 --> 00:30:24.880
so we over corrected to a certain extent. But then

536
00:30:24.880 --> 00:30:26.559
there were certain people that had kids and like, Okay,

537
00:30:26.559 --> 00:30:28.759
I'm just gonna do it completely differently than my parents did,

538
00:30:29.000 --> 00:30:31.039
and that's how we end up with, you know, the

539
00:30:31.359 --> 00:30:32.559
soft ass kids we have now.

540
00:30:32.880 --> 00:30:36.680
Yeah, which it also goes back late eighties when they

541
00:30:36.720 --> 00:30:40.160
started saying, you know, you can't hit your kids.

542
00:30:40.319 --> 00:30:41.680
That was a huge mistake.

543
00:30:45.559 --> 00:30:48.000
Maybe you don't say the word hit, maybe say spank instead.

544
00:30:48.519 --> 00:30:48.799
Beat.

545
00:30:51.400 --> 00:30:54.480
So beatings is what Trey and I got, so't just

546
00:30:54.480 --> 00:30:55.000
below that.

547
00:30:55.440 --> 00:30:58.759
I definitely got. I've definitely got spanked a couple of

548
00:30:58.799 --> 00:30:59.599
times for sure.

549
00:31:00.160 --> 00:31:00.279
Uh.

550
00:31:02.680 --> 00:31:04.599
Sometimes your kids deserve to have their ass beat.

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according to BuzzFeed, fifteen things that will keep the peace

574
00:32:48.799 --> 00:32:53.000
if you and your partner share one bathroom. I just

575
00:32:53.000 --> 00:32:55.599
need to disclaim this now. If you truly want a

576
00:32:55.759 --> 00:33:02.119
very happy relationship, I highly recommend two bathrooms. Read and

577
00:33:02.240 --> 00:33:05.240
even if you're somewhat limited and you can't have two

578
00:33:05.279 --> 00:33:08.279
full bathrooms then one and a half. It just needs

579
00:33:08.279 --> 00:33:10.839
to be a full bath and another toilet that you

580
00:33:11.000 --> 00:33:11.680
can go.

581
00:33:11.559 --> 00:33:14.599
To his and hers. Definitely needs to happen.

582
00:33:15.000 --> 00:33:15.240
Listen.

583
00:33:15.319 --> 00:33:17.759
That was like Brandy and I are planning on moving

584
00:33:17.799 --> 00:33:18.759
in together when.

585
00:33:20.559 --> 00:33:23.759
Our leases are up, and that was one of the

586
00:33:23.839 --> 00:33:26.759
key things we both agreed on right off the bat

587
00:33:26.839 --> 00:33:28.400
is has to have two bathrooms.

588
00:33:28.480 --> 00:33:31.720
Yeah, I really, I really think you guys are. You're

589
00:33:31.720 --> 00:33:34.960
on the right track. Yeah, not only in the relationship,

590
00:33:35.000 --> 00:33:36.559
but on how to make the relationship last.

591
00:33:37.799 --> 00:33:40.119
They're thinking ahead, this is good. Good job, Tray, you

592
00:33:40.200 --> 00:33:42.200
have really grown over the last couple of years.

593
00:33:43.519 --> 00:33:46.000
He has, well, So here, so I'll go ahead try.

594
00:33:46.160 --> 00:33:46.880
Well, there's just.

595
00:33:48.559 --> 00:33:52.240
I know, some couples everything else, farting around each other,

596
00:33:52.319 --> 00:33:54.799
all that stuff. Great, I there's some things I like

597
00:33:54.839 --> 00:33:57.720
to you just need to be remain a mystery for me,

598
00:33:58.920 --> 00:34:01.759
and she agrees.

599
00:34:03.559 --> 00:34:05.359
Yeah, you know, just have separate bathrooms.

600
00:34:05.599 --> 00:34:07.119
Yeah, you guys are on the same page, and that's

601
00:34:07.160 --> 00:34:09.719
what's most important. Not the same piece of toilet paper

602
00:34:09.760 --> 00:34:12.920
page because that would be weird. So here, if you

603
00:34:13.000 --> 00:34:17.039
find yourself in a situation where you're sharing a bathroom,

604
00:34:17.239 --> 00:34:20.440
here are fifteen ideas. Fifteen products that can help keep

605
00:34:20.480 --> 00:34:23.280
the peace in that shared bathroom with you in your partner.

606
00:34:23.400 --> 00:34:27.719
Number one, an automatic toilet cleaning system with a bleach cartridge.

607
00:34:28.000 --> 00:34:30.960
That way, it removes the question whose turn is it

608
00:34:31.039 --> 00:34:34.519
to clean the toilet. I had to double check to

609
00:34:34.559 --> 00:34:36.440
make sure this was even a real thing, and it

610
00:34:36.519 --> 00:34:38.719
actually is. It's a little device that hangs in the

611
00:34:38.760 --> 00:34:41.559
tank of the toilet and then it like just gradually

612
00:34:41.679 --> 00:34:43.440
keeps the toilet clean automatically.

613
00:34:43.559 --> 00:34:46.960
It's just like the old tablet she used to put

614
00:34:47.000 --> 00:34:50.000
in there, just a more efficient way of doing it.

615
00:34:50.239 --> 00:34:51.559
I feel like I'm going to be poor at the

616
00:34:51.599 --> 00:34:53.400
end of this segment because I'm going to buy everything

617
00:34:53.440 --> 00:34:54.079
on this list.

618
00:34:54.840 --> 00:34:56.519
I feel like we need to do a shopping list

619
00:34:56.639 --> 00:34:59.360
and maybe we just send the TMU version of it.

620
00:35:00.079 --> 00:35:03.119
And running bars forever.

621
00:35:03.199 --> 00:35:05.320
A toilet tabs have been something I have been been on,

622
00:35:06.000 --> 00:35:08.960
been big on for years because you know, and they

623
00:35:08.960 --> 00:35:10.679
go back. I mean, the only difference between the ones,

624
00:35:10.840 --> 00:35:13.320
like when we grew up, they were like the size

625
00:35:13.320 --> 00:35:16.519
of a hockey puck, and now they're more like.

626
00:35:16.480 --> 00:35:18.280
The size of i'll say, a golf golf ball.

627
00:35:18.480 --> 00:35:20.880
But they're so easy and you just put them in

628
00:35:20.920 --> 00:35:25.599
there once every two or three weeks, and those wonderful things.

629
00:35:26.000 --> 00:35:28.719
Is that the same as the self cleaning toilet bowl

630
00:35:28.800 --> 00:35:30.800
stamp I don't think so.

631
00:35:32.199 --> 00:35:34.960
It's like a little like you go, it's like a little.

632
00:35:34.719 --> 00:35:38.079
Gel thing, Yes exactly. It looks like a tide pod

633
00:35:38.280 --> 00:35:41.800
stuck to the like stuck in the bowl of the toilet.

634
00:35:42.719 --> 00:35:45.360
That I knew those had existed, but it threw me off.

635
00:35:45.400 --> 00:35:47.480
The first time I saw one. I was like, cause

636
00:35:48.079 --> 00:35:49.679
I'm a guy, so like, I'm trying to move it

637
00:35:49.719 --> 00:35:52.840
with it's aurin. Yeah, like I got it.

638
00:35:52.920 --> 00:35:53.320
I hit it.

639
00:35:53.320 --> 00:35:57.559
It's not moving. This thing's glued down. Jesus. So that's

640
00:35:57.559 --> 00:35:59.719
one of the items that they say will help no

641
00:35:59.800 --> 00:36:02.159
more arguing over whose turn it is to clean the toilet.

642
00:36:02.159 --> 00:36:04.599
Two of those. A bottle of poopery.

643
00:36:05.360 --> 00:36:08.199
Oh my gosh, that is the greatest invention of all time.

644
00:36:08.800 --> 00:36:12.280
Look used correctly, it works.

645
00:36:11.960 --> 00:36:15.239
Just like the Internet. If used correctly, it will change

646
00:36:15.239 --> 00:36:18.920
your life for the better. Yes, Internet and pooperri the

647
00:36:18.920 --> 00:36:20.159
greatest advancements.

648
00:36:20.639 --> 00:36:21.159
Who knew?

649
00:36:22.119 --> 00:36:24.679
And if you don't have any poopery, a good old

650
00:36:24.719 --> 00:36:26.159
fashioned candle lysol.

651
00:36:26.199 --> 00:36:33.639
Yeah, or a match matches I'm team match that's old school. Uh.

652
00:36:34.039 --> 00:36:39.039
A drawer organizer for the drawers. Here it mentions an

653
00:36:39.079 --> 00:36:42.559
eight piece interlocking drawer organizer, kind of like how you

654
00:36:42.599 --> 00:36:46.239
have one for silverware in the kitchen, you should have

655
00:36:46.280 --> 00:36:48.079
something similar in the bathroom.

656
00:36:48.360 --> 00:36:50.280
I would fail at that. I just throw everything in

657
00:36:50.320 --> 00:36:52.320
a cabinet and shut the door so nobody sees it.

658
00:36:53.800 --> 00:36:56.000
I knew we were going to learn some stuff about you.

659
00:36:56.000 --> 00:36:57.840
Who did Oh, I'm the messiest person alive.

660
00:37:00.000 --> 00:37:02.119
If you're run for your money on that one ray,

661
00:37:02.239 --> 00:37:04.280
you will, uh you will.

662
00:37:04.320 --> 00:37:04.840
You're messy.

663
00:37:05.199 --> 00:37:08.039
I figured your life today that you'd be a much

664
00:37:08.079 --> 00:37:08.760
cleaner fella.

665
00:37:09.119 --> 00:37:12.079
It's not not that I'm not clean, but I am

666
00:37:12.239 --> 00:37:16.400
very bad about especially in the bathroom. Of once I

667
00:37:16.519 --> 00:37:18.280
use it, I just put it back on the counter.

668
00:37:20.039 --> 00:37:21.639
Then once every two or three days, then I have

669
00:37:21.639 --> 00:37:23.519
to go all right and then put everything back where

670
00:37:23.519 --> 00:37:24.199
it's supposed to go.

671
00:37:24.480 --> 00:37:27.079
My thing is like, if I can't see it immediately,

672
00:37:27.239 --> 00:37:29.159
I will have no idea where it's at, So I

673
00:37:29.239 --> 00:37:31.280
might as well just leave it on the counter so

674
00:37:31.320 --> 00:37:33.400
that I know where to grab every single day.

675
00:37:33.880 --> 00:37:36.480
I am the living embodiment of out of sight, out

676
00:37:36.519 --> 00:37:41.440
of mind, same a big. I can combine a few

677
00:37:41.480 --> 00:37:45.800
of these on this list just by simply saying shelves

678
00:37:46.960 --> 00:37:49.159
shelves for the drawer like I just mentioned, and then

679
00:37:49.239 --> 00:37:52.880
shelves underneath this sink, so you can stack stuff as

680
00:37:52.960 --> 00:37:55.800
opposed to just kind of throwing it in. Shelves are

681
00:37:55.840 --> 00:37:59.679
a big thing. Motion activated toilet light so I.

682
00:38:00.440 --> 00:38:02.800
Yep, I love these. I actually bought them for my

683
00:38:02.920 --> 00:38:06.559
uncle's one Christmas. Really yeah, so like when you walk

684
00:38:06.679 --> 00:38:10.320
near it, it lights up so you can you never miss.

685
00:38:10.760 --> 00:38:11.159
I had.

686
00:38:13.920 --> 00:38:16.039
You know what I'm talking about though, right, Trey, No,

687
00:38:16.199 --> 00:38:17.119
I do, but.

688
00:38:17.199 --> 00:38:20.079
I had never seen it until I saw this article,

689
00:38:20.119 --> 00:38:22.559
and I am ordering one.

690
00:38:22.920 --> 00:38:24.760
That is genius.

691
00:38:24.960 --> 00:38:28.519
Yes, it looks like a nightclub in your toilet. Yeah,

692
00:38:28.559 --> 00:38:31.000
and just like a real nightclub, is gonna be peep everywhere.

693
00:38:31.920 --> 00:38:38.960
G But I I try not to turn on the

694
00:38:39.039 --> 00:38:40.800
lights if I do get up in the middle of

695
00:38:40.800 --> 00:38:43.039
the night, because then I know it's gonna wake me

696
00:38:43.119 --> 00:38:43.719
up even more.

697
00:38:44.000 --> 00:38:45.400
So this is perfect.

698
00:38:45.960 --> 00:38:46.280
Yep.

699
00:38:47.840 --> 00:38:52.679
Also, the squatty putty, I have never used a squatty potty,

700
00:38:52.719 --> 00:38:56.400
but I hear like Rave reviews, I had one for

701
00:38:56.440 --> 00:38:56.840
a while.

702
00:38:56.960 --> 00:39:00.639
I would endorse it. Yeah, it's a to make things

703
00:39:00.679 --> 00:39:04.920
move more naturally and more efficiently. So yeah, and the

704
00:39:04.920 --> 00:39:07.360
good news is it's light weight enough that when you're done,

705
00:39:07.480 --> 00:39:09.400
you can just kick it off and then just go

706
00:39:09.519 --> 00:39:13.760
back to looking at your phone for a while. This

707
00:39:13.800 --> 00:39:17.119
is going to be for you. Rebecca. Hair tools holder, Oh.

708
00:39:16.920 --> 00:39:19.480
My gosh, yes, I need all of them.

709
00:39:20.679 --> 00:39:24.119
An outlet shelf, like a little shelf or on top

710
00:39:24.159 --> 00:39:26.400
of the outlet so you can plug in toothbrushes and things.

711
00:39:26.519 --> 00:39:27.400
Oh that's smart.

712
00:39:27.599 --> 00:39:30.039
Yeah, a toothbrush holder, and to spenser. Well, now we're

713
00:39:30.039 --> 00:39:35.039
getting fancy, a stylish but not flashy hanging laundry hampering.

714
00:39:35.119 --> 00:39:38.000
Just kind of hang it over the door. Smart gets

715
00:39:38.000 --> 00:39:41.280
it off the floor. Yeah. A bottle of wet and

716
00:39:41.320 --> 00:39:44.159
forget weekly cleaner. You just basically spray it.

717
00:39:44.480 --> 00:39:45.239
That's a must.

718
00:39:45.639 --> 00:39:47.840
The water in the shower just kind of rinses it

719
00:39:47.880 --> 00:39:50.440
for you and then there's no scrubbing, and that's supposed

720
00:39:50.440 --> 00:39:51.239
to be really really good.

721
00:39:52.280 --> 00:39:52.719
Yes. True.

722
00:39:53.039 --> 00:39:56.119
I'll tell you another thing I bought about a month

723
00:39:56.159 --> 00:39:58.840
ago I had never seen before, but one of the

724
00:39:58.880 --> 00:40:02.400
shower heads that you can flip on the top of

725
00:40:02.440 --> 00:40:04.920
it and it turns into a high pressure sprayer for

726
00:40:05.000 --> 00:40:06.400
your your bathroom walls.

727
00:40:07.199 --> 00:40:10.880
Ooh, it's brilliant that that does make a lot of sense.

728
00:40:11.000 --> 00:40:13.679
So if you have one of those shower heads that's

729
00:40:13.760 --> 00:40:16.760
detachable and it's got the multiple settings, every single one

730
00:40:16.760 --> 00:40:18.559
of them has the high pressure set.

731
00:40:18.639 --> 00:40:21.639
No, no, this is has not. This is not the shower head.

732
00:40:21.800 --> 00:40:24.079
Literally it is on top of the shower head and

733
00:40:24.159 --> 00:40:26.400
it is like a car wash sprayer.

734
00:40:26.679 --> 00:40:28.400
Okay, So that's what I wanted to make sure because

735
00:40:28.400 --> 00:40:30.039
I've got one with the shower head that's got the

736
00:40:30.079 --> 00:40:32.760
high pressure thing, but not one that's like a dedicated

737
00:40:33.159 --> 00:40:34.400
shower power washing.

738
00:40:34.599 --> 00:40:36.199
Yeah I need that, but so.

739
00:40:36.239 --> 00:40:40.360
I would use that setting online, you know, for the shower.

740
00:40:42.360 --> 00:40:44.760
But if we're being honest, that's what it's for. It's

741
00:40:44.840 --> 00:40:49.280
the butthole. It's the butthole cleaner. It's the butthole setting

742
00:40:49.480 --> 00:40:53.800
on your shower head, the one that's just the right size.

743
00:40:54.360 --> 00:40:57.320
It's just enough power. So, Trey, do you have to

744
00:40:57.320 --> 00:41:00.719
be careful when you use that extra nozzle top for

745
00:41:00.800 --> 00:41:01.320
your bubbo?

746
00:41:02.559 --> 00:41:08.559
You can't, like it would literally except I mean you'd

747
00:41:08.559 --> 00:41:10.960
have to take the shower head off and like, because

748
00:41:11.159 --> 00:41:13.599
like I said, it is not if the shower head

749
00:41:13.639 --> 00:41:17.800
is facing down, this faces up. I mean it is

750
00:41:17.800 --> 00:41:21.119
on literally on top of it's a completely separate nozzle

751
00:41:21.199 --> 00:41:24.480
everything from the shower head. It just diverts all the

752
00:41:25.199 --> 00:41:28.119
water pressure to one thing. And like I said, it's

753
00:41:28.159 --> 00:41:30.880
like a car wash prayer, So it's.

754
00:41:30.760 --> 00:41:32.440
Like an angle thing. You think you wouldn't be able

755
00:41:32.440 --> 00:41:33.440
to use it for your backside.

756
00:41:34.199 --> 00:41:37.239
I mean you'd have to actually manually. Whereas what you're

757
00:41:37.280 --> 00:41:42.559
talking about the massage, I'm assuming the massage thing still

758
00:41:43.519 --> 00:41:45.599
points down at you. If you were to try to

759
00:41:45.639 --> 00:41:47.440
use this high pressure thing, you would have to grab

760
00:41:48.000 --> 00:41:51.880
the shower head and hold it back there because it's.

761
00:41:51.760 --> 00:41:55.119
Not Well, that's what the little soap dish on the

762
00:41:55.159 --> 00:41:57.039
side of the wall is for you stick your one

763
00:41:57.079 --> 00:41:57.840
foot up on there.

764
00:41:59.000 --> 00:42:01.199
So what I'm hearing is that both of you are

765
00:42:01.239 --> 00:42:03.239
going to go home today and try this and then

766
00:42:03.280 --> 00:42:04.639
report back next week.

767
00:42:05.320 --> 00:42:08.119
Well, the next time you see me, if I'm sitting down,

768
00:42:08.760 --> 00:42:11.119
we'll know why. You'll know that I was successful.

769
00:42:11.360 --> 00:42:13.840
It's one thing to have a have a high pressure

770
00:42:14.360 --> 00:42:18.960
you know, massage, uh stream, you know, going towards your pride.

771
00:42:18.960 --> 00:42:21.079
It's another thing to have a car wash nozzle.

772
00:42:21.960 --> 00:42:22.840
So you'll love it.

773
00:42:22.880 --> 00:42:25.559
I promise I'll think about that the next time you

774
00:42:25.639 --> 00:42:27.400
go through the car wash. What it would be like

775
00:42:27.480 --> 00:42:29.239
just to stick your ass up through the moon roof

776
00:42:29.320 --> 00:42:35.280
in the middle of it. No thanks, you say, that,

777
00:42:35.360 --> 00:42:35.800
but I'm just.

778
00:42:37.800 --> 00:42:38.119
Try.

779
00:42:38.480 --> 00:42:40.239
Yeah, someone will try. We're going to see it on

780
00:42:40.280 --> 00:42:42.000
the news and it's going to be our fault and

781
00:42:42.039 --> 00:42:42.960
I'll never be prouder.

782
00:42:43.440 --> 00:42:45.800
Dan. This is is this what happens when pegging is

783
00:42:45.840 --> 00:42:46.320
not enough.

784
00:42:47.719 --> 00:42:58.840
You know what, Trey golf, It's more of a prepeg ritual,

785
00:43:01.599 --> 00:43:04.320
which again is not true for all things Treehouse. Treehouse

786
00:43:04.360 --> 00:43:07.199
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787
00:43:08.440 --> 00:43:11.280
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788
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789
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790
00:43:16.840 --> 00:43:19.840
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791
00:43:19.920 --> 00:43:21.920
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792
00:43:21.960 --> 00:43:22.559
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