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It is time to leave your worries outside and laugh
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with us inside the treehouse. I'm Daniel Maley, along with
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Trey Trenholm, Raj Sharma, and special guest inside the treehouse,
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which is back in black. Not just because three out
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of the four of us are wearing black shirt, but
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Rebecca Black back in the treehouse.
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Thank you, sirs, Thank you friends.
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Yeah, it was not planned, Raj. So I hope you
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don't feel left out or excluded that the three white
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people are wearing black shirts and you, the brown guy,
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are wearing a white shirt.
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I actually changed from a black shirt to this shirt.
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Oh so close, We're almost quadruplets.
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Yeah, that would have been That would have been weird.
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You don't need to change. Keep the white shirt. Let
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you be you. You stand out among Thank you among
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the pale faces here.
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Thank you all right.
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Quick question for you, Rebecca, and I'm singling you out
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because you are married, unlike Trey, unlike Raj. Okay, we
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were married.
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Yep.
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My thirteenth wedding anniversary was earlier this week.
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Congrats, by the way, thank you.
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I appreciate that. How long have you been married?
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It will be I think eighteen. Nice This summer.
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Okay, So do you have people ask you for marriage
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advice because you and your husband have been together for
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eighteen years?
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Occasionally but not often, And I think it's because we
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don't actually have marriage cred because we don't have kids
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or something.
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Interesting. There may be something to that.
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What about you?
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So we talked about that earlier this week. Because if
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you get if you're married for a certain number of times,
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people will start to ask you for, you know, marriage advice,
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and my marriage advice is no, I'm not giving you
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marriage advice because every relationship is unique. Because that individuals
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in the relationship are unique. There are some common themes
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that can run through most marriages, but at the end
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of the day, every relationship is unique, and my piece
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of advice for you may not work.
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Oh that is the most boring answer I've ever heard
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in my life. Thank you, d I love to give advice.
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I'm upset that more people aren't asking.
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Me, which is further proof that whatever works for me
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is probably not going to work for you.
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I disagree. I think my advice is always great always.
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I'm more mind my own.
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Business and nobody likes you, Dan.
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So the reason why I'm asking this very frontloaded question
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to you, Rebecca, and now that we're fighting about it
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is recently a couple was flying on Alaska Airlines and
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they were flying to their wedding and the flight attendants,
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I guess everyone was really bored on this flight. So
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the flight attendants went up the aisle and asked everyone
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to write down their best advice for them as they
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head into married life, and a lot of the answers
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were the standard things like be quick to forgive, don't forget,
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to say I'm sorry, communicate, blah blah blah. My position
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on that is, don't take marriage advice from strangers. So
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there you go. There is my controversial hot marriage advice.
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Don't take marriage advice from strangers. Know where that's coming from.
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You don't know those people. Also, if you're asking everyone
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on a plane, not all those people are really experts
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on the matter. Someone are going to be single, give
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you terrible advice.
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No.
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I agree with you on that, but I do think
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maybe they should have a preface like, hey, put how
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many years you've been married first, like, or if you've
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been divorced seven times, you got to write that before
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you put your marriage advice.
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On there, right, I think that would help. I think
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a little bit of context would be jennificial. I will
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say this, if there's a guy on the plane that's
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been divorced seven times, I'm curious to hear his advice
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same because he's seen some things.
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Right, surely he's learned a few lessons from each of
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those marriages. I would think that he could maybe pass
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on to the future generations.
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Yeah, the one lesson he didn't learn is he's not
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good at marriage.
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Hey, if first you don't succeed, try try again.
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Or he could he could do the couple of favor
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and tell them to know your limits.
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Also, you know, there's that weird group of people I
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think that are serial marriers, you know what I mean,
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Like after the first like the first one's done four years,
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so then they do it again and again and again
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and again. And I'm like, I think that they're just
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legitimately addicted to being married.
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I have a friend of mine who, before the age
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of forty, had been married four times. Wow, And on
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the on the fifth one, I think I'd run into
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her out and about in Addison and she's like, you know,
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I'm getting married again.
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I was like, and you can't be like congratulations.
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I was like, and I just you know, I just went,
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oh again, that was my She's like any advice.
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I was like, yeah, you're not good at this, don't.
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That's my advice, don't.
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I feel like that.
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This may be a little sexist, but I feel like
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that that the therriage is a far more female thing
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because typically divorce stings the men a lot worse.
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Okay, fine, because everybody that I have know that has
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been married multiple times is a dude.
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Yeah, when you get over four or five times.
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I only people I know have done that are are women?
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Really?
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Yeah? Yeah, no, everybody I know anything, anyone I know.
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I don't know any men that I personally. Yeah.
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Three, Like doctor Phil gives marriage advice and the same
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thing like ont you married four times? Like I don't
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want your advice, Like like I don't need it.
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But no, I wouldn't do it again.
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What to do?
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Yeah? Yeah, absolutely.
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Oh I like that idea too. I think that's also
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valid information what not to do?
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For sure.
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I think that would be a bigger selling point if
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you are like a marriage counselor and you're like, all
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I do is tell you what not to do.
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I agree.
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I look at it this way. You just because just
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because someone might be married or single, Just because someone
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might be single doesn't mean they can't have great marriage advice.
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I will give you an example. Trey has never been married. Trey,
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what is your best piece of marriage advice?
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Well, I mean you've, you know, told us that pegging
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is the centerpiece for your marriage, So right, Rebecca, I
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meant to that you is that is that part of yours?
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It's not, but I mean, who's who's to say it
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can be? We might be trying that this weekend. I
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don't know, let's find out.
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I can't wait to see your husband's face when you
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tell him please do it.
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My mind, he's gonna die.
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This is the Treehouse Show. I'm Daniel Malley along with
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Trey Turnholme, Raj Sharma, and today's special guest inside the
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Treehouse is our friend Rebecca Black. Yeah, Trey, we were
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discussing thinks it was last night as a fun treehouse
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group chat that we did on a little live stream.
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How's your leg doing?
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Trey cautiously optimistic, at uh, it was.
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Not worse this morning, which was which is good? I
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mean I I got up in the middle of the night,
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I iced it and everything else, so I am able
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to move around with little pain. So I am hoping
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it is something that will heal itself and not require
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medical intervention.
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Rebecca were worried because Trey went to the gym and
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did a lunge and may have torn his quadriceps muscle.
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Do you really think it's that bad or is it
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just like a little old man sciatica situation happened?
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Oh Trey knows, Oh okay.
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That Rebecca Rebecca, Rebecca Rebecca. Let may ask you a question.
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How do you equate a quad and A and a
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in sciatica?
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Oh? Well, I mean they're on different sides.
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Of the not hamstring. That's my bad. I'm so sorry. Wrong.
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But the ball, the ball that that shot up in
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your thighs, it is it flattened out some or is it?
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Yeah, it's not the amp.
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Do you have pictures? Yeah, I'm gross.
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Oh no, yeah, it's it is better.
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Uh, Like I said, I've kept it from an iced
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and so I am I am, I said cautiously optimistic.
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Has Daisy, your chihuava, done anything to help make you
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feel better? Because I know you go out of your
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way to do wonderful things for her. So I'm wondering
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if you know, if it if it's a two way
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road there.
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You know, she hung out with me last night.
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We snuggled a little bit because you know, we're at
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the point in our relationship after fifteen years where we
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snug a little bit. Then normally she just goes to
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her side of the.
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Bed and basically tells me to piss off.
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So uh so ever, like every woman.
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Yeah, maybe we should get marriage advice from Drey just
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to see you know, it's like, you know, between him